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For those of you who are double jabbed, I'd appreciate hearing your feelings on this

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Fernando072020 · 04/08/2021 07:46

Hi everyone,

For context, I live abroad where we still have some safety measures in place. I am due to get my second jab in 2 weeks. Until then, we are still being as careful as we can for the pure fact I don't fancy catching covid as it sounds horrendous. I'm also writing my master dissertation and have a 1 year old at home with no family nearby so I can't afford to get ill.

After we (DH and I) get our second vaccines in two weeks, we plan to take our little one swimming / to the zoo / playgroups etc. But I still feel nervous about going out and doing things, despite the fact we'll be double vaccinated as I know you can still catch it.

Does anyone else feel like this?
My logical brain tells me covid isn't going anywhere and with having both doses, we need to start "living" again. I'd love to go out and do things once more especially with an active 1 year old who loves seeing the world after only seeing the inside of our flat his whole life. Then I feel nervous again about catching it and becoming very ill. This has been exasperated by the fact that two friends told me recently their siblings have caught covid with one vaccination and have been very ill regardless.

I guess I'm just looking for tips and advice on how to relax about it all and carry on with my life after getting my two doses, or just to hear if anyone feels similarly to me!

Thanks all

OP posts:
Dizzy1234 · 04/08/2021 09:05

I'm double jabbed, still wearing a mask in shops and using hand sanitiser.
I think you need to take sensible precautions, try to avoid getting too close to people, wear a mask if there is a lot of people around indoors and sanitise or wash your hands, it's all you can do.
We need to get on with our lives, take baby steps until you feel comfortable.
I'll be taking my mask off when I'm ready & not because we no longer have to wear them.

Fernando072020 · 04/08/2021 09:16

Thank you to everyone so far who has commented nice, supportive comments! I appreciate it and it has made me feel much more relaxed.

I definitely plan to do it step by step, and we will start at the end of August when we have full protection. I'm also at the stage now where I just want to get out there and live again :) I haven't been back to UK in 2 years, the majority of my family haven't met my son yet so come Christmas time, unless there's another lockdown, I will be on that plane!
Like lots of you have said, I just have to take it slow and get used to it. I'm early 30s but overweight (working on it) so I guess that does worry me slightly.

@chinateapot this is a good way to look at it.

@VienneseWhirligig I agree! I find it bizarre how quickly human nature adapts to new situations. And I feel once everyone is double jabbed and builds their confidence again, we'll find it odd that we wore masks and didn't hug for nearly 18 months.

@Lanique I'm glad to hear the jab was effective in stopping you from getting a bad case of covid :) that's very good to hear!

@VanCleefArpels I guess hearing from friends that their siblings have bad cases even though they are jabbed. I know this is not enough to go by and I very trust that vaccinations do their job, which is why I was posting here, just to gain some insight into how others are feeling and hearing how so many people have taken their time, gotten used to it etc is exactly what I needed to hear.

@PostMenWithACat thanks for sharing! This is the kind of thing that I need to hear :) I'm glad your son was OK with it and you and your DH escaped it. This is what the jab is for, thank you!

Just to add, I'm not locked up in my flat the whole time. We've been to the park quite often and get out for lots of walks. Two weeks ago, our numbers were practically non-existent so we travelled to another city and saw two sets of friends which was lovely, and we took our little boy to a tester session for play group last week which only had another 3 children and he loved it. So I'm not locking myself up at home. I think the playgroup is what made me nervous though and hence why I'm now here asking how others are doing and coping with restrictions being lifted because from September, I've enrolled him into two different playgroups and a music group.

It has helped to read through all your answers.

@AliMonkey I also feel saying there is no right or wrong is accurate. I guess people just need to do what makes them comfortable and hope their friends and family around them understand that

OP posts:
Halloweenrainbow · 04/08/2021 09:22

Do what you feel comfortable with. You don't have to go to soft play or a crowded restuarant if a less stressful alternative is available. There's nothing wrong with choosing outdoor activities or going places at quieter times. I've been doing this for years for non covid reasons.

MsChatterbox · 04/08/2021 09:24

I think you just need to force yourself to do something. I was very anxious about covid when I had a newborn. Hardly even wanted to go for a walk. I just started doing things. The more things I did without catching covid the safer I felt and now I don't even think about it.

DGFB · 04/08/2021 09:27

The vaccines will protect you at your age, they really will. It will take some time but yes you need to start living again. Wait a few weeks for the full second dose immunity then get on with life. I’m back to normal and it’s great!

RhonaRed · 04/08/2021 09:29

The vaccine seems to be making it very similar to a cold in most people.

Hadalifeonce · 04/08/2021 09:39

Outside activities are always much safer than indoor ones.
I will not be going into crowded places for a while yet.

Lovemusic33 · 04/08/2021 09:48

Im slowly removing my mask, it does feel odd because we have been wearing them for so long, I have been swimming a few times and at the weekend I went shopping and to the hair dressers without a mask, in some shops it seemed more exeptable than others, some people were masked and others were not, seemed most older people (60+) were still wearing masks, I guess they still feel more at risk than younger people.

We are on holiday and about to go into town, it will be interesting to see how many are wearing masks as this place is kind of renowned for conspiracy theorists and the type of people who believe covid doesn't exist 🤣. We have masks with is but will only wear them if we feel we need too.

JonahofArk · 04/08/2021 09:52

You will adjust, don't worry.

I have had both vaccinations and am pretty much back to normal. I still comply with social distancing and masks but I've decided that I'm happy to take more risks because I want to have a life again. I would even love to go clubbing again but nobody in my social circle is prepared to take that step yet-hopefully soon!

My advice would be to take small steps in the beginning. Stay close to home in case you get overwhelmed and don't beat yourself up if it takes longer than you expected to feel comfortable in doing more.

pinkhousesarebest · 04/08/2021 09:58

We are all doubly vaxxed since mid July. Despite restrictions lifting here on the wearing of masks outside, most people are still wearing them (France). I know a couple who have got Covid despite being vaxxed but it is true that the symptoms are much less debilitating.

vaxmeup · 04/08/2021 10:15

I get it OP, it's hard to just 'get back to normal' all of a sudden. Personally I'm finding things really tough- despite being double-jabbed I feel the most anxious I've ever felt throughout the pandemic. I'm hoping this feeling will pass and I can start doing things indoors again slowly. I'm not afraid of being sick for a few days/weeks, or even of dying. It's getting long covid that scares me the most and having to deal with that on top of everything else (even if I'm not eating out, shopping etc...at least I can go for a run and exercise).

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