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Eating out dining in, party of more than 6

17 replies

Ruminating2020 · 18/06/2021 10:01

I am planning on going to a restaurant for my birthday next week but they don't have any outdoor tables to accommodate our party of 7/8.

Something that a friend suggested was to book separate tables of 4 next to each other. Has anyone tried this? If it doesn't work then I will try my second choice venue that does have outside seating.

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valnevavaxx · 18/06/2021 10:03

You can try it, but if the place realises you are one group they would be within their rights to chuck you out- by which point you've taken two tables from them that they could have given to someone else. Selfish and not worth the risk imo.

oohmethumb · 18/06/2021 10:05

We did this recently. It was fine and the venue was happy to do a table of four and table of three next to each other. Enjoy your birthday!

Ruminating2020 · 18/06/2021 10:08

Thank you for your replies.

@valnevavaxx I would explain it when I book on the phone first. So they can refuse me before committing.

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valnevavaxx · 18/06/2021 10:20

Ah my apologies- I've seen people do this in places where they clearly haven't made the venue aware and I think that's selfish.

If the venue are happy to do it then fine!

Spekoppar · 18/06/2021 10:21

Some will do it, but they’re not supposed to.

Timetopoeet · 18/06/2021 10:24

We did it last summer, 2 x tables of 4 next to each other. I've been a rule follower but I think it's ok. They have to set an arbitrary number, if you turned up with 50 in a village hall it might be a bit different!

ComtesseDeSpair · 18/06/2021 10:24

I thought groups of up to 30 can meet outside now, so seating parties larger than six together, if they have table capacity, shouldn’t be a problem. I’ve eaten and drunk in several pub and restaurant gardens recently and no problem with larger tables.

ComtesseDeSpair · 18/06/2021 10:27

Ah, I see you want this place inside. Again, all the places I’ve been to have been fine with tables side by side; a couple of times staff have reminded people they mustn’t move between tables, but I don’t know how strictly it’s monitored.

Ruminating2020 · 18/06/2021 10:32

Thanks for further replies. I am aware of not being able to mix bubbles which is okay as one of my friends doesn't get on with another one of them, but I still want them both to come along.

Of course, I don't want to put owners in an awkward position so I would accept them not wanting to take our booking.

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OrangeBananaFish · 18/06/2021 16:16

We were thinking of going out for a meal with my parents. As there 5 of us and 2 of them that made 7. Though from only 2 households, but after ringing they were not happy to accommodate us. Fair enough really.

towers14 · 18/06/2021 16:20

You will be able to get 2 tables next to each other, we do it all the time. What's the difference if you know the people on the next table or you don't?

looptheloopinahulahoop · 18/06/2021 16:21

@valnevavaxx

You can try it, but if the place realises you are one group they would be within their rights to chuck you out- by which point you've taken two tables from them that they could have given to someone else. Selfish and not worth the risk imo.
Not true at all. Last year I went out in a group of 12 and we had two groups of six. As long as you stick to your tables and don't swap around and wander about it's fine.

And the s word is the most overused word of the pandemic.

LetsGoFlyAKiteee · 18/06/2021 16:26

Give it a go. I've done this. They just asked for 2 different names to book the tables under and can't swap seats and move round etc.
No different to be next to a table of 4 other people really.

NoBetterthanSheShouldBe · 18/06/2021 16:30

I’ve been out several times with 2 tables of six. The venue has been very careful to separate the tables and ensure there has been no mixing.

RufustheBadgeringReindeer · 18/06/2021 17:37

Like many others we've done it as well, we did ask the venue if it was ok first

TheDuchessOfBeddington · 18/06/2021 17:38

My place would allow this. The tables have to be 1 meter apart and please don’t swop seats.

Just ask!

WaitroseAldi · 18/06/2021 17:43

Iv just booked for a table of 9 at a restaurant. It’s two house holds

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