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Just as my life was starting to feel normal ...

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cottondotty · 07/05/2021 19:31

I became a mum last year, 6 weeks before the first lockdown.
Shortly after I was diagnosed with postnatal anxiety (which after therapy was actually PTSD)

I’ve had a really tough year (which I know we all have)
My maternity leave was really lonely, I felt isolated and I slipped into a really depressive state.

I returned to work in December but was working from home.

In March I received a text from my Gp telling me I was eligible for my vaccine, turns out that I was group 6 due to a high BMI.
I was elated, I felt such a sense of relief and jumped at the change to be vaccinated, I had my first dose.

That was 9 weeks ago, in those 9 weeks, I’ve returned to the office once a week (work from home the other two)
I’m in a support bubble with my parents (they’re fully vaccinated and we all test twice weekly)
I’ve joined baby groups and met some lovely mum friends.
I’ve been shopping, eaten out, and I’ve had a weekend break camping.
It’s been like a dream, and my mental health has been amazing, all because I’ve felt safer, protected by having the vaccine.

I’ve obviously been cautious and followed guidelines but I’ve had the confidence to do these things rather than stay at home and fear Covid.

Today, after seeing the news about the age restrictions and the vaccine, I feel like I’ve been punched in the stomach.😭

I’m 36 and I had the AZ vaccine.

My only health condition is obesity.

I jfeel like I was just starting to feel “normal” (definitely more normal than I have felt for the last year) and now this is happening.

I don’t know what to do. I’ve absolutely loved how I’ve felt recently, and the vaccine has given me the confidence to enjoy things within the guidelines. but I just don’t know if I can take the chance with the 2nd dose of the vaccine.

If I wasn’t fat I wouldn’t be offered the AZ.

I don’t know what to do.

OP posts:
RagamuffinCat · 07/05/2021 19:33

I'm 35 and have had my first AZ vaccine, and will be getting my second one. The risk is extremely low.

ssd · 07/05/2021 19:33

Sorry i don't really get what you mean?

WyldStallions · 07/05/2021 19:35

Of course you can? I think the very rare side effect occurs after first dose?

Original poster
cottondotty · 07/05/2021 19:35

@ssd

Sorry i don't really get what you mean?
@ssd

Sorry, what part don’t you get?

OP posts:
Coolerthanapolarbearstoenails · 07/05/2021 19:38

I don't understand either.

ssd · 07/05/2021 19:38

Are you worried about having the az again?

Londonorout · 07/05/2021 19:38

Are you worrying about getting the second dose, OP?

Chat to your GP. I think if you had no side effects after your first dose you’re ok. But they’re doing trials on mixing vaccines (AZ then Pfizer) at the moment so that might be a possibility?

When did you have your first dose and when is your second due?

Myalternate · 07/05/2021 19:38

Nine weeks post vaccine and you've been enjoying your life.

Carry on...

GeorgeandHarold66 · 07/05/2021 19:38

Sorry it's been a tough year for you but I feel you're being a bit dramatic here. You were fine after the first one i'm assuming, the side effects are less with the second one. The severe side effects are incredibly rare. For a person in group 6 the benefits hugely outweigh the risks.

EnjoyingTheArmoire · 07/05/2021 19:40

I'm 37 and had my first dose in Group 6.

I will be having my second dose of AZ in a few weeks.

My understanding is that the risk is much higher with the first dose, so I have no concerns about the second one. I won't be going out for meals etc until my full household is vaccinated, which goes to show that personal risk i s different for all of us.

I would advise doing some reading about the risks, in a calm unemotional manner.

Londonorout · 07/05/2021 19:41

Sorry I’ve just realised your first dose was 9 weeks ago which means you’re due your second in 2?

Please chat to your GP for reassurance. But the risk with AZ is so low - especially for someone who had the first dose and was completely fine, I would imagine.

Carry on enjoying life again!

PlugUgly1980 · 07/05/2021 19:41

If you had the vaccine in March you're a good way outside the risk window for blood clots. The Gov website states "tends to occur between 4 days and 4 weeks following vaccination." And the recommendation is that if you had no side effects with the first dose then you'll be ok with the second. Anxiety is extremely in please and it's easy to say don't worry, but the risk is small anyway, coupled with the fact that you had it more than 4 weeks ago means it's even lower.

whataballbag · 07/05/2021 19:42

Completely understand your fears, I'm 29 and due the second AZ next week.

As it stands the risks are currently low for the second jab, but there's no way of knowing that they won't increase as quite a large amount will still be within the 4 week wait...

When are you due your second?

BogRollBOGOF · 07/05/2021 19:42

I'm only just 40 and had AZ at Easter at about the point that concerns about AZ were intensifying internationally. I'm low risk, my area was just ahead on age. I have no qualms about getting the second dose. Clotting risks are higher from "normal" actions such as hormonal contraception or birth.

I understand that the clotting risk is higher in the first dose and for a short period after so you have gone beyond that point anyway.

whataballbag · 07/05/2021 19:44

I do wish people would stop peddling the 'risks are higher after taking the pill'.

It's not 'just' blood clots that are of concern, it's VITT.

TheGriffle · 07/05/2021 19:44

I’m 34 and had AZ at the beginning of March, just when the news of the clots came out. I’m in group 6 due to my bmi. Dh has also just been given AZ at 39 with high bmi.

I’m due my second jab this Sunday and while apprehensive, I’ll still be going and I’ll be glad I’ve had it done.

Torvean · 07/05/2021 19:46

The chances of this happening is low. W.H.O are still in favour of it over getting Covid.

You should only worry after the vaccine a severe headache which pain killers don't help. Blurred vision , nausea and vomitting, speech issues weakness, drowsiness and seizures.

If you've not had any of this there's no need to worry.

I don't mean this in a disrespectful way but if you are very overweight Covid is much more risky for you.

Go get your 2nd vaccination. Then get back to enjoying life.

Fitforforty · 07/05/2021 19:46

I’m 37 and due my second dose of AZ. I’ve heard but haven’t confirmed that I’m the issue occurred after people had the first vaccine. Your risk of blood clot was much higher when you were pregnant than from AZ. The

Original poster
cottondotty · 07/05/2021 19:50

@ssd

Are you worried about having the az again?
@ssd

Yes. Sorry if my post isn’t clear.

I’m worried about my second dose.

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ssd · 07/05/2021 19:54

I think if you had it before you should be ok. I haven't heard of any people having a bad reaction the 2nd time.

Gubanc · 07/05/2021 19:55

A load of backstory... You're very unlikely to have a bad reaction to the second dose if you haven't had one to the first. Lots of healthcare workers erc have already have had their second AZ who are below 40.

EssentialHummus · 07/05/2021 19:58

Gently, you had the vaccine and had no reaction. In fact it massively improved your quality of life indirectly. You’re in group 6 so risk from covid is significantly higher than from the vaccine. I’d say you need to swallow your anxiety, crack on and have it. If you need further reassurance ring your GP.

mygee · 07/05/2021 20:03

I'm 33 and booked to have my second AZ dose next week. I felt terrible after my first dose so I've been dreading it incase I feel the same again. Now that they're recommending under 40's have an alternative vaccine I'm even more worried!

Skyliner001 · 07/05/2021 20:06

You are fat, therefore at risk from covid. So much less risk from the vac! I really wouldn't worry. 😊

TheOrigRights · 07/05/2021 20:12

OP, as a group 6 priority person you are already at a higher risk of lots of conditions than someone older but with a healthy BMI.

I obv don't know the reason for your high BMI or what you've done to get to a healthy weight, but these are moot points.