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Not coping today

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bathsh3ba · 28/04/2021 09:02

With things feeling like they were starting to get back to normal, my mental health was starting to get back to normal too. I was sleeping better, experiencing anxiety-related nausea/digestive issues less.

Then yesterday my DD13 has a headache and dizziness, we test with PCR and negative comes back overnight, all good. This morning she says she still has a headache, I give her Calpol (she won't swallow tablets) and tell her to go in, she bursts into tears so I end up keeping her off while her sister, DD11 goes in.

And now I'm just sat here feeling like it's neverending. I was just getting some time back to myself and now I don't have it again. I can't concentrate properly with her in the house. I'm worrying why was she crying, is she being bullied, she says no but would she tell me? Is it coronavirus, was it a false negative? If it is, have I just spread it to school via her sister? Is it linked to her eating which I've been worried about for a while, she is not underweight but she is never hungry and only grazes small amounts?

I just can't stop my head spinning and I'm resentful of her for being home and questioning if she is really ill or trying it on and I just hate my life. I hate being the only one with responsibility for everything.

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nonaomi · 28/04/2021 09:08

Sorry that you're having a rough day. It sounds like a lot is on your shoulders. It's important to get your feelings out. As for worrying about your daughter having covid, she's very unlikely to have it.

It sounds like you are very anxious today and your mind is racing. It also sounds like you're managing a lot of this all by yourself. Is there anyone you can talk to ?

Try to refocus and see your worries for what they are- a bad day during a really stressful time. I hope you feel better soon.

RedcurrantPuff · 28/04/2021 09:10

Your anxiety is getting this out it proportion. It’s one minor setback, although it’s annoying, she’ll be feeling better and back at school soon no doubt

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