The risk of clots from the vaccine is also much lower. It is a specific type of clotting that has caused most deaths, btw, not DVT, and hence why I was questioning this. And it is not clear how many deaths were actually related to the vaccine.
People have made comparisons with several other factors associated with clots, including flights and the pill, which people still take despite the known risks.
So far, the association with the vaccine seems to be with women and younger ages (not solid data, because the numbers are still small), and some countries have restricted the AZ vaccine to older people, so to reduce the risk.
Eventually, it may be possible to identify more specific risk factors, so that we know who should avoid the AZ vaccine.
Having said that, it may not be exclusive to the AZ vaccine.
And a definitive cause-effect relationship has not been established. Which is not to say that we should not be careful.
But, as you say, we can do our best to avoid getting COVID for example, even if the risk of clotting is higher, so our personal risk for clots associated with COVID will be very low because our risk of catching COVID is low, and we are being proactive in avoiding that risk. But getting the vaccine is "meeting" the risk head on. There is a psychological difference that is important. You have to make a choice to take the risk, even if it is smaller.
I can appreciate that, even if I think the risk is worth it.