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Should I ask GP for the vaccine?

27 replies

Violet80 · 18/02/2021 18:34

I was hoping I might qualify for group 6 and be able to have the vaccine soon. I'm nearly 40 so know I don't qualify by age, but I have very poor health generally due to a chronic condition (EDS), chronic fatigue and chronic pain from osteoarthritis in my spine and hips. I have Pernicious Anaemia as well but my B12 injections were stopped by my surgery (long story) and now my levels are clearly low again, so I'm feeling even weaker and more poorly than usual as well as my neurological symptoms are coming back (pins and needles or numbness in hands, arms and feet). I'm housebound but I was mostly that way before Covid arrived anyway. I've always picked up any viruses from my daughter very easily and a normal cold will knock me for six, something like a stomach bug will take me 3-4 weeks to get better and last time I had a chest infection it took 8 weeks to go. My body's basically a bit rubbish! My husband is my carer and that means he now qualifies for having the vaccine as part of group 6, he's in his late 40's and very fit and healthy, but because he's my registered carer he's now entitled to the vaccine. I was really hoping we'd both be able to get the vaccine together now.

We also have a daughter in her last year of primary, she was diagnosed with Autism a few months ago. She struggles to cope with most things, but her mental health has taken a real dive since lockdown 3 and school closing before Christmas. She only wants me for support and comfort most of the time, and if she's having an anxiety attack or meltdown she just gets angry with her dad and pushes him away if he tries to help, she's always been very clingy to me but it's become much more intense since the pandemic started. I'm finding it harder and harder to have the bodily strength to help and support her. I feel like my body's just run down completely now after the last year.

She's developed insomnia as well during this lockdown and most nights now she's finally going to sleep at about 2am, then waking about 6am and struggling to get back to sleep. She usually then gets another couple of hours sleep but I'm worried about her because she looks so exhausted and pale, she can't stop yawning but she's still unable to sleep because of anxiety. It's a vicious circle. It means I'm not getting as much rest as when she was at school, obviously she's at home now 24/7 and we have the sleepless nights as well. I don't think I've felt this weak and unwell since she was a newborn and you just limp through each day at a time.

On another thread someone mentioned that having PCOS was a reason for being in group 6, I also have PCOS but I can't find any info anywhere online about why PCOS would be a condition for group 6? I have had anxiety and periods of depression since I was in my late teens and been on medication for almost 20 years, but I don't think that would be a reason to be put in group 6, from what I've read it's only severe mental health conditions like schizophrenia and bipolar disorder that are group 6 conditions.

Do you think there's any point asking my GP if I'd be able to have the vaccine as part of group 6? None of my conditions are listed for the group 6 underlying health conditions, so I don't hold out much hope, but at the same time I'm feeling so at rock bottom with my health that I'm hoping possibly I might be classed as vulnerable health wise? I'm almost scared to ask my GP though, and that he'll think I've wasted his time. Should I ask? If my daughter goes back to school in a few weeks like the media is saying, it will be great for her, she can't take much more of this lockdow, for me I'm going to be so happy for her when she does go back, but also constantly worrying myself in case I catch Covid from her (how I was last term). If I was in group 6 and able to have the vaccine it would be perfect timing. I just don't know if I should speak to my GP about all this or not...?

OP posts:
spurs4ever · 18/02/2021 18:42

Your records will be coded at your surgery already so you can ring them and ask what group you are in, they'll be able to tell you.

TowandaForever · 18/02/2021 18:44

Be aware your surgery might have put you in the wrong group in error.

This happened to my dd20. We spoke to the surgery and she had the vaccine today.

OverTheRainbow88 · 18/02/2021 18:45

It’s defo worth a call

itallworkedouthorribly · 18/02/2021 18:46

It seems crazy that your carer would get it and you wouldn't.

I would definitely make a bit of a fuss but they may not be able to do much as the codes are very specific.

Chouxbuncity · 18/02/2021 18:48

I don’t think any of those conditions would mean you qualify unfortunately.

Spodge · 18/02/2021 18:50

It's got to be worth a call. Even if they can't change your group they mayhave a list of people they can call at short notice to cover no-shows rather than wasting vaccine, so that might be an option for you.

Rupertbeartrousers · 18/02/2021 18:50

You might qualify with the new criteria pulling in multiple factors? My friend has severe ME but unfortunately, despite a campaign, that’s another debilitating condition they’ve missed off the list

IdblowJonSnow · 18/02/2021 18:52

My friend has EDS and is getting her jab this weekend.
Its absolutely worth asking, nothing to lose.

JayAlfredPrufrock · 18/02/2021 18:53

Asking can’t do any harm.

Floralnomad · 18/02/2021 18:53

It doesn’t hurt to ask but unfortunately there are loads of people in the same , or a worse position .

rawalpindithelabrador · 18/02/2021 18:54

You can try. Hope your GP is better than ours.

Vallmo47 · 18/02/2021 18:54

Definitely ask, on the basis of your health concerns alone. Good luck.

Plutoh · 18/02/2021 18:55

I'd phone them, they have been vaccinating healthy people in their 30s in some places, so I'm sure they can slot you in.

StillDumDeDumming · 18/02/2021 19:00

Also I know it's aanother story but if you're B12 is low then it can get pretty bad (as you no doubt already know) just wondering if you've tried the PA society. We didn't need them in the end but my friends dh had great support from them. I understand they actually advocates directly with his surgery about his injections.

Apandemicyousay · 18/02/2021 19:07

‘Being below 40’ doesn’t mean you won’t qualify, it’s just the over 50s have been tiered. Younger adults expected to be offered later in summer. There were some online calculators doing the rounds giving projected dates a few weeks ago.

Apandemicyousay · 18/02/2021 19:08

Also- get your B12 and folate rechecked and treatwd

DianaT1969 · 18/02/2021 19:17

Definitely worth asking! Also, go with your DH and ask if there are spares. Do you have a high BMI by chance? If yes, you can remind them of that too.
Also, push for B12 again. Are you taking vitamin D?

Kitewoman · 18/02/2021 19:20

Is your DD getting DLA? you could be coded as a unpaid carer (also group 6).

Tomnooktoldmeto · 18/02/2021 20:01

What you should be doing is getting your GP to check your B12 and folate levels urgently

You don’t recover from pernicious anaemia and your pins and needles are signs of nerve damage due to deficiency!

This will also affect your mental health etc, while your at it look at the link between EDS pernicious anaemia, gluten sensitivity, autism and MTHFR

In the nicest possible way you need to take control because no one else will

Sevensilverrings · 18/02/2021 21:13

Are you your daughters carer? That might be a way forward?

DinosaurDiana · 18/02/2021 21:17

Do you know what your BMI is ?
Get your bloods checked and see if you can get on that way.

StillDumDeDumming · 19/02/2021 08:35

Bloody hell the treatment of low B12 in this country is woeful. A deficiency cannot be made up by supplements or diet if you cannot absorb the vitamin through your gut. I think the essential injection costs about £2.50 and the neurological damage from deficiency is horrendous. You must feel like crap but you do need to sort this. Good luck

scatjack40 · 19/02/2021 09:05

Isn’t EDS classed as an autoimmune disease? Perhaps you’ve slipped through the net. People on the shielding list have come from NHS central records but many were missed (such as a friend of mine currently waiting for a lung transplant). Consultants and GPs can add those people to the list so perhaps there’s been a mistake, so definitely worth calling your GP. Good luck!

funnylookingwoman · 19/02/2021 10:26

My surgery also stopped my B12 injections last March. In desperation I bought syringes off the internet and have been giving them myself. You cannot go a whole year untreated!

I have other problems too and believe I should be in Group 6 but cannot ring my GP their phone lines have been down for 2 weeks. I am trying to find an email address for them but to no avail. Primary care has been shocking in this pandemic. My dentist also closed up shop last March too and I havent been seen

GiveMeNovocain · 19/02/2021 10:30

It's worth a call. That's how dh found out he was group 6. He's in his 40s with a qualifying condition.

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