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Which specific moment from this will stay with you forever?

999 replies

RosieLemonade · 13/02/2021 15:18

Positive or negative.

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sandySo · 14/02/2021 19:05

Reading some of these replies are so upsetting.

The fear of the unknown when the first lockdown began will stay with me forever. It was terrifying.

BonesJones · 14/02/2021 19:09

Some of these posts are truly heartbreaking. I am so sorry for each and every one who had lost a loved one.

foodiefil · 14/02/2021 19:12

My sister losing her job at the start of lockdown. She's an internal recruitment consultant and they weren't going to be recruiting and she'd been there less than two years so instantly got the chop. She'd just got it after going through a bullying ordeal at another agency. It felt like we were hurtling into the end of the world with everything that was going on.

Oh and our missed wedding (the first time...)

Upsetmom · 14/02/2021 19:13

Phoning those who have just said goodbye to a loved one whilst working a clinical case worker for test and trace.

poppyzbrite4 · 14/02/2021 19:17

I'm in London and live by myself. It was during the first lockdown and was like Christmas Day with no traffic or noise outside. One evening I had the windows open and my bedroom was lit by an ambulance from the house opposite. I then heard a man screaming no no no no no and then really sobbing. A woman was crying and sobbing as well. I heard the ambulance leave and then some members of the household were smoking and waiting for a private ambulance outside. I was in bed by myself thinking that it was like a dystopian nightmare.

Realitea · 14/02/2021 19:21

In March, I noticed not many children at the school. After speaking to my dd's asthma nurse, we decided a few days before lockdown that it would be her last day going in. The confusion on her face when I said we won't be going back for a while and how upset she was. She forgot her PE kit. She didn't say goodbye to her teacher who was leaving at the end of that week. It was so sad to see how upset she was.
I just wanted to hide away, yet not many people were. Dh's family were all talking about going out for dinner the following week and what they were planning for Easter..I thought, how can they not know what's happening?
I felt like a tidal wave of something awful was going to happen. I've never felt fear like that before.
Little did we know it would last this long. I know this isn't half as bad as what some have gone through. It's just what sticks out for me.

Middersweekly · 14/02/2021 19:21

I remember in early February last year me and a few friends met up with our kids. My friends DH had got €50 Carrefour points on his Carrefour card and went to do an emergency CV shop. We were all laughing about his zombie apocalypse survival skills. 4 weeks later we were in lockdown! The day before we got locked down I went to do an emergency shop as we had a stay at home order (spain) and they were advising people only leave their homes if absolutely vital. I arrived 15 mins before the shop opened and the car park was full. Everyone waiting outside the doors with their trolleys. Marigolds on and makeshift masks! I used my scarf. I remember thinking it was like living in a different universe. It was bizzare and eerie! Everyone silently running round the supermarket quick as lightning clearing the shelves! Then the police vans driving round the streets with megaphones 📢 telling people to stay at home. Kids were not allowed to leave for 8 weeks! It was like a dystopian novel! I caught Covid last year and my lungs have not recovered and may never. So there’s that also!

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dustyparadeground · 14/02/2021 19:24

The first message from Boris “many people will lose loved ones before their time” you realise this is serious and real and going to happen. And the constant sirens going back and forth to the hospital quite near us

Copperblack · 14/02/2021 19:26

I’m a foster carer and last April I got a call to collect a baby from a house where mum was about to be hospitalised with Covid. The emergency team were trying to get PPE for me to use to collect the baby but I wasn’t given permission to use it as I hadn’t been trained. I had to go into the house and collect the baby and it’s things while mum lay dying infront of me. I was horrified by the situation and terrified for myself and my family.

She survived and baby went home, we were ok but it was very frightening. Our Local Authority are currently refusing to vaccinate us as they don’t consider us frontline- not sure how more frontline I could have been!

Fembot123 · 14/02/2021 19:28

@Copperblack

I’m a foster carer and last April I got a call to collect a baby from a house where mum was about to be hospitalised with Covid. The emergency team were trying to get PPE for me to use to collect the baby but I wasn’t given permission to use it as I hadn’t been trained. I had to go into the house and collect the baby and it’s things while mum lay dying infront of me. I was horrified by the situation and terrified for myself and my family.

She survived and baby went home, we were ok but it was very frightening. Our Local Authority are currently refusing to vaccinate us as they don’t consider us frontline- not sure how more frontline I could have been!

Wow 😯
Howmanysleepsnow · 14/02/2021 19:29

Mid March realising this was coming and moving ds’s birthday party forward a week. Only a few of his friends could come, and it was the last time he saw any of them for 6 months.
Listening in to DH’s chest 4 weeks in to him having covid and feeling overwhelming relief when I realised he’d caught a secondary pneumonia rather than had his covid worsen again.
Leaving the house in May for the first time in 6 weeks and feeling like I was on the set of a zombie film. It was 10pm in the city and there were no people and no cars. It felt so eerie...

TheVolturi · 14/02/2021 19:30

Seeing the (tiktok I think) video of the guy that was employed to help build the Nightingale hospital, showing the immense size of it etc, he was basically saying if you don't believe it's all real, you should! Made me shudder, I really thought we were all going to die.

Littlemissamy · 14/02/2021 19:30

Another one, I went back to work after mat leave in February, and we were skint. Properly broke. I saw all the panic buying and broke down wondering what would happen if there was no formula left when I got paid. We had enough until pay day, but not enough to last much longer. When I took Nan to Tesco that week, she went off and did her shopping while I wandered around the clothing and home bit to pass the time. I met her at the other side of the checkouts and she’d bought 4 tins of formula, a load of food pouches, baby snacks, nappies and wipes. I didn’t desperately need them but I just remember feeling such relief that I wouldn’t have to worry about not being able to get hold of it all. A couple of weeks later I was buying more formula and overheard someone buying formula so they could put it in their coffee if there was no normal milk. There was already very little on the shelf and I just lost my mind. They put the formula back, but I couldn’t believe how selfish they were.
And then the day after lockdown, I went to work to help close the bar down and stopped at Tesco on the way home for some shopping for my Mum. She’d given me her NHS card and I walked in, and I’m not kidding, the queue snaked around the entire superstore. I just left. It was absolute madness.

swelchphr · 14/02/2021 19:32

Early on clapping for the NHS and then seeing clips of people all over the Europe doing it. We were hopeful, thankful and it made me feel good to be a part of a collective effort to do something nice.

MirandaMarple · 14/02/2021 19:39

I've read through the posts now. Gulp.

Howmanysleepsnow · 14/02/2021 19:41

Being asked to prioritise patients in a certain part of A&E because we needed to use it as a “hot ED” within the next half hour: there were 8 suspected covid patients in the department.
Seeing patients cleared from a ward and “red zone” signs put up.

RosieLemonade · 14/02/2021 19:43

I remember so little of the first lockdown. Like I've blocked it out. I am not even sure how long it lasted.

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Inpeace · 14/02/2021 19:47

Seeing the bus pass by with face masked passengers.

Walking through a town centre last week, again face masked people but also shops empty of stock and signs removed closed down.

Apocalypse style. Horrid.

Aslan007 · 14/02/2021 19:50

I was on holiday last December and had heard about the virus breaking out in Wuhan. Thought this is just like the Ebola virus which hardly affected the UK. Come February and the UK was slowly sinking.
I will never forget how scared everyone was of each other and how we were washing every single item of shopping before putting it away.

Some of the good moments were Grime Gran and her rants, Joe Wicks workouts and clap for heroes at 8pm every week.

lljkk · 14/02/2021 19:51

Bloody Hell @PrincessSD. :(

numberoneson · 14/02/2021 19:53

@EssentialHummus

Going for a hospital scan on my own and seeing two midwives kitted out in full ppe. It wasn’t good news.
I'm so sorry it wasn't good news. Wishing you all the best in the future. Flowers
bunnybooboo79 · 14/02/2021 19:55

2 things will never leave me:
1.The feelings of crippling anxiety going into work in a care home, worrying if I was going to die, even contemplating on writing both my children letters if the worse was to happen
2. One of our residents in work struggling to breathe, reaching out for me to help her, she died hours later and the same night my Covid symptoms started... best thing to happen me getting it though, completely removed all fear

numberoneson · 14/02/2021 19:59

My husband going into hospital with a severe urine infection in April 2020 and catching Covid from someone on the Ward. He died on 13th May, and I will never get over it.

MojoJojo71 · 14/02/2021 20:01

Bursting into tears in front of colleagues at work when DS called me to tell me he had tested positive

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