Not sure if this should go here and on relationships but I’ll ask anyway.
My partner had pneumonia 11 years ago. It involved hospital and a pretty dire situation but pleased to say he recovered and apart from having previously undiagnosed asthma brought to light (and having relevant inhaler to treat it), all well and no episodes since. We think his lungs and respiratory system is a weakness that he has probably always had.
We moved house and GP about 5 years ago. Apparently my DH found out that his medical record went missing and the incidence of pneumonia is missing from his files. He is still having asthma meds and called for a flu jab though.
He believes he hasn’t had the official NHS letter to tell him to shield because of his missing details in his file.
Luckily none of us (we have two teenagers too) have caught Covid and I am being extra careful, not really visiting supermarket, using antibacterial spray on any deliveries, distancing and highly vigilant. Recently DH has tried to stop me from walking with one other person. He is clearly very worried about his risk. Just to give you perspective, today was the first time in 2.5vweeks that I walked with one other person and we both wore masks as an extra means of safety.
I had planned a couple of other walks next week with two different people on separate days but now I’m coming under pressure (and fire!) not to do them.
I have suggested my DH needs to address his missing records with the GP so that he can be vaccinated sooner rather than wait to be lumped in with the over-50 cohort in May or whenever. He says he will do this and I sincerely hope so as I feel like a prisoner in my own home.
He is very ‘off’ with me for walking today despite my distancing and wearing a mask. I feel satisfied that I’m not taking a big risk and it is unfair for him to stonewall me.
I’m not sure he is going to fall into a the highest CV category and that he would even be advised to shield? He needs to be cautious as do we all in the family but not to the point where we can’t see anyone until he eventually gets offered a vaccine.