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Covid advice dillema.

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Lullaby88 · 31/01/2021 17:26

I'm currently pregnant and due in May. It is a while to go but I have issues and cant stop thinking about afterbirth.
I usually go to my Mums to recover as my husband will be busy with my other kids and i need that support. But I worry il pass the virus on to my parents or theyl pass it to me in my recovery?
Also about my husbands parents they are not part of the support bubble but they obviously want to see thier new grandchild and i feel so so so bad if they dont, they will understand if i say no but id feel like a terrible human? Im struggling a lot with all these thoughts and need advice please. I feel really down about it all :( my husband has been supportive and tells me to follow my maternal instincts.

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Lullaby88 · 31/01/2021 17:29

Nb my husband will be supporting me for the first 2 weeks as he has that time off.

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DianaT1969 · 31/01/2021 17:36

Won't your parents and in-laws be vaccinated by then? Things will be different in May. I wouldn't give it headspace.

Lullaby88 · 31/01/2021 17:45

Possibly yes. But I wont be vaccinated though. Yes it does need headspace ur right. I think im thinking really far ahead and things could be a lot different by then hopefully. I think because we are in the midst of it i have been suffering from anxiety.

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umpteennamechanges · 31/01/2021 17:45

I would honestly park this until April.

Things may have changed by May and so worrying about it now in terms of rules today is probably wasted effort

Lullaby88 · 31/01/2021 18:21

Thanks its true, better to wait till the time. Appreciate that really helps.

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