@PolarnOPirate
I agree overall but I disagree with the people reducing losing weight down to eating less, and how easy it is, with this undertone that everyone overweight has themselves to blame and needs to take some responsibility for themselves. I have tried everything to lose weight, except surgery, which I doubt I am fat enough for (size 16) and don't want to do anyway. I have THOUGHT I was fat since I was in nursery, as it was always pointed out to me that I was the chubby daughter/grandchild, built for rugby not ballet etc.
As it stands now, I am seeing a dietician who agrees my diet is wonderful, have been to GP many times but there is nothing wrong with me (in fact I'm healthy aside from my weight), don't do fads, eat sensibly, do 16:8, exercise all the time, still fucking massive. Sorry but I don't know what more I can try!
I'm in much the same position.
I got very ill after having glandular fever & a virus that attacked my liver. I was a normal weight (just on 8st) but it all screwed up my system and I ended up diabetic. I THEN put weight on and despite eating incredibly low carb I cannot lose it. I'm now obese, but despite YEARS of eating VLC & various fasting things etc. I simply can't lose any weight.
I'm pleased for people who 'cut out' their late night hot chocolate or 'stop snacking' do a few weeks fasting or start walking instead of taking the car and the weight just falls off them, but I already do those things and I am, where I am.
I KNOW my Covid risk is high - 52, obese, diabetic. But I do wish people would realise that as much as losing weight might have been simple or even just possible with some effort - for some of us, it's just NOT.
I do have some sympathy though as before I got sick I too was a smug twat who thought fat people just needed to eat less & exercise more. I happily give my previous self a good slap!
I'm terrified of getting Covid, to the point where I'm not sleeping again & that doesn't help things. But just to let the critics know, I'm sufficiently terrified...