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Primary aged only children at home with WFH parents - anyone else?

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Celledora · 31/12/2020 02:08

Not sure if I should post in Parenting or here, but it’s a question specific to today’s news, I guess.

I live in a London Borough that is not reopening primary schools in January.

I get it. I absolutely agree it needs to be done. We’ve been following the guidance and been so careful all year whilst trying to be positive and creative with getting a 4 (now 5) year old through it all without too much damage.

But I am suddenly just overwhelmed with worry and can’t seem to shake it. He’s an only child, who after a long spring/summer without even a playground at times, had just started school in September and was blossoming in the classroom. He was very much looking forward to being able to play with other children when back at school and now that won’t be happening.

Instead he will have more weeks/months stuck in the house whilst we have to work from home, staring at computer screens all day and hushing him when we’re on calls.

He needs loads of interaction and to learn new things and to blow off steam with other kids. I am totally out of energy and ways to make this ok for him, it feels like we’re failing him and I just can’t stop worrying.

How are you planning to handle it this time round? Any solidarity and/or tips very gratefully received!

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RuleWithAWoodenFoot · 31/12/2020 02:11

We had the same last time. It was shit, I'm dreading having to do it again. I have no good ideas, just didn't want to read and run. The trampoline got us through it. That and Minecraft.

elizabethdraper · 31/12/2020 02:16

We are going to figure out how Minecraft works and on what devices.

It does work on kindle!!

Anyone any help in this?

That and duolingo for as gaeilge

Celledora · 31/12/2020 02:21

Funny you both mention Minecraft. We’re going to get on that ASAP!

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EatsFartsAndLeaves · 31/12/2020 02:24

Minecraft is a total life saver and vaguely educational. Are there any single parents in your kid's class that you might be able to form a bubble with?

Celledora · 31/12/2020 02:25

I scoured all the parenting sites and blogs and had a big list of activities over the summer that I could set him up and let him get on with at the table next to me. We also had the warm evenings to run about when I’d finished work. Think I just need to get into a better frame of mind and accept there’s going to be a lot more screen time.

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Celledora · 31/12/2020 02:28

Good point @EatsFartsAndLeaves Since the start of Tier 4 we agreed to do that with a neighbour buy they’ve been having visitors (family groups) almost every day over Christmas so that’s a no-go for me now. Will check if any of his classmates mum’s might want to be a playground buddy. You’re allowed to meet 1 person outdoors.

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Celledora · 31/12/2020 02:29

Autocorrect fails agogo

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