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So how do my kids see their dad

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Whatwouldscullydo · 22/12/2020 10:24

Recently split. He now lives in a shared house so they cant go there. And I have a support bubble so I cant be his not that I'd wanna be or why bother splitting up...

Tier 4 area..

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Whatwouldscullydo · 22/12/2020 13:37

That sounds hard coffee

Expect your the nasty crazy ex who won't let him see his kid too right Hmm

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Whatwouldscullydo · 22/12/2020 13:39

Please tell me your are having Xmas Dinner with your support bubble ajd hes gonna show up to an empty house?

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ChristmasStartedAlready · 22/12/2020 13:47

Anything I have the kids have and anything he has the kids will give to me.
OP, ex and i work on that basis and we will all be doing Xmas lunch together.
Hope your DD is ok.

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Whatwouldscullydo · 22/12/2020 13:48

Shes getting there. Thanks. Its new to us all. But she us at least old enough to go and meet him somewhere so hope that will help

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Ilovecoffeeandcake · 22/12/2020 14:03

We're going to my parents for dinner.
Yes, I'm probably that 🙄, he's always the hard done by victim and never done anything wrong. Even when the abuse has been witnessed he denies everything.
It only dawned on me this morning that he might just show up so I'm worried sick about that now. When he has come over for Xmas for a few hours its horrible. Sometimes he has waited outside in his car from the early hours and knocks on the door when he sees the light go on. Hes miserable, barely speaks to DD and I'm on edge. I had to ask him to leave once because we needed to get ready to go out and he was screaming at me in my face about his rights to see his DD Xmas day. All in front of DD.
I hate Xmas because of him.

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Whatwouldscullydo · 22/12/2020 14:06

Sad oh coffee Flowers

Go have a lovely dinner at your parents. If his friends or family know him at all and still believe that its you then theybareht worth the headspace. I think support bubbles are allowed overnights aren't they? Can you go over Xmas eve?

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Ilovecoffeeandcake · 22/12/2020 14:10

My DD doesn't want to, she wants to sleep in her own bed and wake up at home bless her.
Am pretty sure if ur ex is quarantining he's not allowed out for 10 days x

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Whatwouldscullydo · 22/12/2020 14:22

Hes not quaratining cos if exposure its just something the housemates have asked him to do within the house. Not have guests akd to warn when he's coming out the room for food.

Hes still working

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