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Isolating at Christmas

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IsolatedforChristmas · 19/12/2020 14:49

I’m a teacher. Just received the dreaded phone call that several children in my class have tested positive. Luckily (and most importantly) they are all fine-mild symptoms/asymptomatic. Myself and my whole class now have to isolate over Christmas. I know this year has been terrible for many people and lots of people have endured much worse so I’m trying to keep this in perspective. However, I live alone and now have to spend Christmas completely on my own. The children in my class (only year 1 so Christmas is obviously at the centre of their little worlds at the moment) will be so upset as I know how many of them were looking forward to seeing grandparents etc. I’ve had a really difficult year with my own mental health issues and struggling massively with isolation during the first lockdown which put me in a very desperate state. I was so looking forward to seeing family that I haven’t seen for months.

I’ve loved being back in the classroom this term. I have fully supported schools being open and have tried to minimise the risk where possible (loads of hand washing etc) but social distancing with 5 and 6 year olds is impossible. I’m not angry with anyone in particular but I feel frustrated that if we’d have broken up just one week earlier then this could all have been avoided. It just feels like the worst possible timing. I’m dreading the next 10 days and especially Christmas now. Can’t even get a food delivery because of them all being booked up so hoping a friend can drop some bits over.

PS I’ve name changed as not sure how outing this could be (hopefully not too many people are in the same situation!)

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Starlightstarbright1 · 24/12/2020 00:11

It sucks op. Yes remote learning for bathe last week.most of my ds’s class was sent home during the last week so I kept my Ds off aswell.

I watched a teacher ask the question on the news today - I thought you are been fucked over again.

Hopefully you remain symptom free. Can you plan zoom calls , something you can do. Anyone local can pick you some bits up for you?

sproutsandparsnips · 24/12/2020 00:12

Our school had remote learning form 15th to avoid this issue. Feel for you OP. If it's any consolation we are in isolation anyway as DH tested positive yesterday. I think the worst is not being able to go for a walk, check out the neighbours' lights and deliver Christmas cards.

Bytheriogrande · 24/12/2020 00:12

I'm sorry op, your situation just highlights how badly teachers and school staff have been let down. I hope you got some digustingly unhealthy food to enjoy in your food delivery (or disgustingly healthy if you're that way inclined :))

I hope you can find ways to enjoy the next few days. It'll suck but try to make it suck less as best you can Smile

AccidentallyOnSanta · 24/12/2020 00:41

We just got an email today that DD needs to self isolate. We're ok, she'll be ok, but I feel for all the other children/families and teachers involved who will now have to cancel all plans they might've had on such short notice.

donewithitalltodayandxmas · 24/12/2020 01:02

@accidentlyonsanta what was last day of school then to be getting an email now

AccidentallyOnSanta · 24/12/2020 10:06

[quote donewithitalltodayandxmas]@accidentlyonsanta what was last day of school then to be getting an email now [/quote]
17th.

ceeveebee · 24/12/2020 10:26

Wow - that’s a long delay. So self isolation presumably should have started from 17th?

Is there a big backlog of testing results in your area, I think London and South East in particular are taking a few days to process whereas in lower rate areas they are typically within. 24-36 hours. And that just makes the problem worse when unsuspecting contacts are not isolating during what could be their most contagious period.

tenlittlecygnets · 24/12/2020 10:45

Op, I'm so sorry. Sending 💐 and good wishes that you remain healthy. Thank you for being a teacher!!

Dd finished her isolation at midnight tonight, but since her school finished we have had five letters from school informing us about new cases and saying that people need to isolate - the last one was yesterday! So people who were close contacts have already been out and about for a week after being in contact with the affected person!! Bonkers.

Be good to yourself. There's loads of good tv on over Christmas. Candles, music, long lies, try to stay positive...

I keep thinking 'at least I'm not a lorry driver stranded in Kent'...

IsolatedforChristmas · 24/12/2020 20:41

Absolutely in a better state than the poor lorry drivers!

Been a bit tearful today but tried to keep busy with some films and jobs around the house. First day I haven’t bothered getting dressed! Figure there’s got to be some perks! Will definitely be indulging in disgustingly unhealthy food (not inclined to go for the healthy no!!) Still debating about whether to have a drink or whether alcohol is just going to make me more emotional.

Thanks again for all your lovely messages.

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Tickledtrout · 24/12/2020 21:04

Another day over @IsolatedforChristmas. Well done for getting a few jobs done. And don't berate yourself for being emotional; it's what makes you human. Ridiculous and awful situation.
What sort of food are you planning? And what drink are you thinking about?

IsolatedforChristmas · 24/12/2020 21:47

Yes you’re right I’m nearly at the end of another day and I think once tomorrow is out of the way it will be downhill from there.

Got party nibbles in and plenty of chocolate for food tomorrow. Gin would be my usual tipple of choice but like I said I’m not sure it will be the best idea!

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Tickledtrout · 24/12/2020 21:53

Some lovely fancy tonic, ice, lemon then maybe?
You're right. Spend tomorrow spoiling yourself rotten and it'll pass soon enough

Chaotic45 · 24/12/2020 22:19

Sorry you're having to go through this OP.

DH and every one of his 20 colleagues tested positive last week (retail workers).

We've been isolating and are free as of Boxing Day. It's not the same as we have each other but we have found that as the last day approaches we do feel so much less down, abs I hope it's the same for you too.

Feckers2018 · 25/12/2020 00:18

Merry Christmas OP!! Hope you find some joy today. Best wishes.

IsolatedforChristmas · 25/12/2020 12:32

Yes I’m all stocked up on the wine and chocolate thank you. Such a beautiful day-wish I could get out for a walk!

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