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So angry at DH's colleague for going to work

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JammyGem · 24/10/2020 21:15

DH has just let me know that a colleague of his has tested positive for COVID. Normally I'd be sympathetic and hope they are OK, but I'm so pissed off.

This colleague is living with someone who's had a positive test earlier in the week, but he didn't tell anyone this. He construed coming to work, even after taking his own test. Only today that he's had his positive result has he bothered to warn anyone.

A family member he lives with tested positive early in the week, yet he continued coming into work and didn't tell anyone. He got tested, still came into work not telling anyone. Only today that he's had the positive result has he actually bothered to warn anyone.

DH's job and workplace means that they cannot socially distance from each other, so it's likely that he'll have passed it on. They've been told by management to keep an eye out for symptoms but they shouldn't self isolate until/if they are contacted by the track and trace people.

I have a weakened lung due to a past illness, so am very nervous about catching covid. I'm just so angry that this selfish prick thought it was OK to go into work, knowing he most likely had it and would pass it on to others. I thought there was some kind of fine now for these idiots?

It's a particularly bad time as DH has just been made redundant (he was already on reduced hours), and my hours have been reduced, so money is tight and we absolutely cannot afford to self-isolate. If we have to, of course we will, but it does mean that next month we won't be able to pay the rent.

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JammyGem · 24/10/2020 21:16

Sorry, not sure why I repeated that paragraph in the middle!

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Cornettoninja · 24/10/2020 23:01

Have you checked if you’re eligible for the emergency payment? I think you have to be in receipt of certain benefits so I appreciate you may be in one of the situations that have fallen through the cracks.

I’d be angry too, but your DH’s management also sound awful to the point I can see why they’ve ended up with a staff member making the decision not to isolate.

I hope things work out for you Flowers

Torvean32 · 25/10/2020 01:07

Your husband's colleague is a prick. Hopefully your husband won't develop it. If his colleague has been honest about his contacts then your husband will be notified.

BlackeyedSusan · 25/10/2020 01:18

If new how to report, I probably would.

MollysMummy2010 · 25/10/2020 01:37

My husband tested positive on Monday - no symptoms so had been living as normal. I haven’t caught it.

sergeilavrov · 25/10/2020 01:39

The colleague is a moron and should be fired for putting others at risk. Speak to your landlord as soon as you can: hopefully they’re a reasonable person who can give you some flexibility and support, maybe even your deposit back to give you some financial wiggle room. At least the clarity will give you a stable understanding of your situation.

12309845653ghydrvj · 25/10/2020 01:37

The colleague is a total prick. Your husband and the other coworkers should be isolating now, and his work are being awful to tell them the opposite.

newnameforthis123 · 25/10/2020 11:47

I would have thought his behaviour would result in a serious disciplinary or even being fired? Poor you, he's a selfish prick you're right to be angry about it.

HibiscusNell · 26/10/2020 09:06

That's terrible - I really hope your DH hasn't caught it. You think the employer would be majorly pissed off too.
I hope you can access the £500 payment if needed.

britnay · 26/10/2020 10:52

Surely both your DH and colleague are wearing proper PPE while at work if they can't socially distance from eachother. Also all equipment should be being routinely cleaned throughout the day.

Mindymomo · 26/10/2020 15:48

Your husband and work colleagues should self isolate for 14 days if they have been in close contact with someone who has tested positive. My son is having the same argument with his firm, who say my son can return to work, as he has had private negative test and not been contacted by track and trace, despite being in close contact with a person who tested positive last Monday. He isn’t going in until his 14 days are up.

FredtheFerret · 26/10/2020 15:51

Family member (living with us) tested positive for Covid this weekend and we have had texts and emails and a phone call on our landline all warning us that by law we must isolate for 14 days - so there is no way that the colleague was in any doubt that he must do this.

We will be following the rules, obviously. I have also contacted everyone I can think of who has had contact with the Covid positive person to inform them.

Fatted · 26/10/2020 15:52

I understand that you are angry but you have answered your own question. YOU can't afford to self isolate because your DH is being made redundant. Is his colleague not the same?

FredtheFerret · 26/10/2020 16:05

@Fatted- it doesn't matter if you can afford it!

It's the bloody law!

MRex · 26/10/2020 16:12

It's worth letting the local council public health team know, they'll be interested in the employer's behaviour.

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