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Pity party for one

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Desperatelyboredhousewife · 15/10/2020 14:46

Firstly, I’d like to start by recognising that my own situation is by no means the worst to come out of the shit show that is 2020. Today, however, I am feeling sorry for myself.

As a type 1 diabetic, I began the pandemic in sheer panic as the media rammed down my throat the fact I was going to die a Covid-related death. Fast forward a few months, I’m starting to slowly get back to normal and a close family member is diagnosed with bowel cancer. Family member spends two weeks recovering alone in hospital while we try our best to provide distanced support. They are now facing 6 months of chemo, all while we are now in the midst of a second wave, and a local lockdown has shat on all my plans for the foreseeable future. Then a few weeks ago, I was made redundant.

It has to get better than this, doesn’t it? My partner and I have booked a weekend in London for the end of the month, I’m not sure if we should cancel now or try and remain hopeful we can do one fun thing this year.

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SebastianTheCrab · 15/10/2020 19:31

Hi I'm so sorry no one has replied to you - I will gladly join your pity party, especially since I'm a T1 too! I warn you I'm bringing a ton of cake and chocolate though (pandemic carbs don't count right?).

I had a family member diagnosed with cancer just before the pandemic hit and she's been through all the chemo, surgery etc by herself. We finally planned to meet up next week now she's a few months post chemo and it's just been cancelled because of local lockdown. I completely sympathise. There might be some fun ways to cheer up your family member virtually though - I ordered mine a celebrity video message from a celeb we both liked.

And I'm sorry about your job - that is really tough. Do you think you'll be able to find a new one? Are there any transferable skills you might have that could keep you going for a bit (eg tutoring) until something else comes along?

RedMarauder · 15/10/2020 19:34

OP if you cancel can you get your money back to go elsewhere? Central London is dead according to the few people I know who have to travel into there.

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