Hi,
Im wondering if anybody can help please. I have a living order and an order stating my ex can have 'reasonable contact'. During lockdown i have had him come to my house to see my son call when he wants, i have tried to be accommodating but since they went back to school we agreed he could see my son 1 hour after school and few hours saturday and sunday and he calls 2 days a week. I have serious health issue aswell so its been hard. These new rules are coming into effect tomorrow but my ex insists that he should still be allowed to have my son and take him to a different house. But my ex is also mixing with all his family still. I said because of my health is too risky and said he can call when he wants just so the contact isnt fully cut off. But he says im being bad but all i keep doing is backing down and he keeps demanding more time and more contact. He even mentioned to my son he is buying a new house and my son can stay with him for 4 days and nights and he can pick him up and drop him to school. I feel like he is planning something and he never mentioned this to me. His girlfriend is also training to become a social worker and feel she is telling him things to do to take my son....i would love some advice as to if im being unreasonable or do i put my health first and stop physical contact during covid as we are one of the high risk cities. And what does everything think reasonable contact is?...i feel like i cant give anymore and physically and mentally it is draining. Would love to hear everyones thoughts please