I've if my DM on the phone today really quite upset.
DP's live in an area with a very low Covid rate but are in the Leeds boundary.
They are sensible and have (and will) followed the rules but DM in particular is just beside herself that in her 70's (fit and healthy) her life is ticking away and all the things she values have gone - friends, family holidays etc
She's dreading a winter in isolation whilst acknowledging that she and DH are very fortunate (good health, no money worries, nice/large house so lots of space). I should say DF (who is far less social) is fine and would rather tighter restrictions nationally.
I spent an hour on the phone to DM and it is sad. She's devastated about the idea of missing us at Christmas and quite frankly seems (unusually for her) depressed - spending winter with minimal social interaction.
I don't think the decision is wrong and also think we are on the verge big another national lockdown but I do think the cost of this, especially over the winter will be high.
Anyway I've said I'll get her set up on Zoom and sort out some virtual coffee mornings for her and her friends to keep in touch (and obviously FaceTime myself regularly).
So solidarity to those in Leeds and elsewhere on heightened restrictions but I think we will all be in the same boat soon.