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How much flexibility with school return

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spacerocket · 10/09/2020 22:53

So my child is extremely anxious about returning to school. Year 6 so has not returned yet.

There are some other factors, has been some truly terrible behaviour in the class (not directed at my D.C. but enough to say police had to be involved and also violence between parents of pupils - some of which D.C. witnessed).

I didn't realise this had so much of an impact but safe to say D.C. is not anxious at home. D.C. opened up about this during time off.

Also D.C. occasionally anxious about covid and going out but school and covid seem to be the issue.

I have organised stuff for the mental health side. This is helping.

We are telling our D.C. that there is no control over covid so do not worry.

School are ok with the time now and a week and 2 days off. I assume school will be in touch soon and I will call the school again.
When will school have to say my D.C. has to return ? Is there any allowance for this situation? Where it is the anxiety of the child?
Is there any lee way, I do intend to work with the school.

Ideally I would like my D.C. to return after the first month as then I could explain that things had settled down. If they had. For D.C. 3000 cases a day are too much.

My D.C. is doing fantastic homeschooling so is not missing out on the academic side. Perhaps I have to make that less appealing.

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spacerocket · 10/09/2020 22:54

Also will the time had off so far be marked as unauthorised absence and make D.C. look quite bad, when absence pre Covid has never been an issue.

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sunseekin · 10/09/2020 23:00

No advice but watching, sending lots of 💐 Feeling similar but still hoping things will change. I feel my children’s mental health is better protected at home at the moment. Every child matters was launched about 20 years plus ago I think, I can’t believe how far backwards the government are prepared to go.

DownWhichOfLate · 10/09/2020 23:00

Get yourself joined up to school refusers support groups. They’ll be able to help you work it out. Try “Not Fine In School” on Facebook.

spacerocket · 10/09/2020 23:12

Ok thank you but I don't have Facebook .. maybe I should join.

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spacerocket · 10/09/2020 23:14

Yes sunseekin it is challenging isn't it.

There is some big covid anxiety around but also some of it is because D.C. is smart and reads. D.C. was telling me "do people realise what exponential and doubling means?"

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DownWhichOfLate · 11/09/2020 09:00

notfineinschool.org.uk/

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