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Cannot be doing with this shit anymore.

35 replies

Bluewavescrashing · 28/08/2020 20:55

I'm going to bed, under my weighted blanket. I'm hoping to sleep all night and feel better in the morning. Fuck this shit. I'm tired of worrying, tired of family life. Tired of it all.

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picklemewalnuts · 03/09/2020 09:22

The council know where the latest cases are. Our councillors agreed that they themselves would not be told, as it was better kept confidential. They know information about deaths, how funeral homes and crems are coping. They know all kinds of stuff. They know where there is overcrowding, rough sleeping, houses of multiple occupancy, enclaves of people from different countries, suspect which restaurants may have effectively slaves sleeping in them at night...

Councils know stuff.

onedayinthefuture · 03/09/2020 09:36

It really is an absolute farce. Queuing up to drop kids at school, huge massive line of people standing next to each other for a prolonged time when usually you'd just drop and go. Wasting everyone's time!

Topseyt · 03/09/2020 10:39

@FrolickingFannyBoots

The whole thing is becoming unbearable. It’s now bordering on mass hysteria, paranoia and obsession. I feel a real sense of unhealthy socially control I never thought I would see in the UK.

I went for an interview yesterday at a council building. The total obsession with Covid was utterly ridiculous. I think people are very frightened for their jobs and doing what managers tell them. It felt just awful- the atmosphere was dreadful with workers assuming the public are infectious. We are just “ Covid safe” I was told - only 10 people allowed in that day into this large sprawling building I was in. We have no plans to return to face to face learning I was told. Why? There was no real explanation or justification for it. Just the ‘threat’ of Covid. Unreal.

I am wondering just how long society is going to keep this up- in 5 years time will we still have local or national lockdowns? If there’s no vaccine, will we stay in this limbo state of paralysis? People have become increasingly anxious over the years because of social media and it’s feeding into Covid paranoia. It’s becoming dystopian and dysfunctional.

There seems to be no gvt guidance, Johnson is a big teddy bear who just isn’t leading the country effectively and there’s not even a weekly public conference to say how we are moving forward. Why not? The many last minute policy U turns make for a very wobbly looking approach by ministers which as eroded public confidence.I am shocked at how obsessed some people are with Covid. Yes in some people it’s a dangerous virus but the damage to our lives is becoming untenable. I am trying to hide from it all and just go out for an occasional coffee.

My DH works in London and many in his company are refusing to return- it’s nicer and cheaper for them to stay at home. There just seems to no end to all and you can’t move for social distancing messages, masks, hand washing and hysterical people screaming “Covid Covid Covid” at me all day. Thousands of people die every year from normal pneumonia, cancer, heart attack, dementia, car accidents and other diseases - yet even young teachers at very low risk are “ “frightened” I read in news yesterday.

Public bodies such as the NHS, teaching unions and councils are seemingly fuelling the fear enormously in my opinion. It is appalling to see how they are quite prepared to just not help those in need or get back to work help the economy going. Dr’s still not seeing patients for example or those requiring essential treatments for cancer etc what a complete disgrace. If we carry on like this, people will implode and society will reach breaking point.

I don’t see the gvt doing anything to stop all this insanity or try to return to social cohesion. Their handling of the situation has been shambolic overall. I want to know who is really behind peddling the high levels of control and fear we are experiencing.

I feel like I’m in 1984 where the Policy of Fear is good. I have complied to all rules so far but seeing people in the train not wearing masks made me want to rip mine off and say “ Enough”!

I totally agree with this.
NeedWineNow · 03/09/2020 11:32

@FrolickingFannyBoots

Well said, I couldn't agree more.

ChanceEncounter · 03/09/2020 11:35

@Pixel7777

Chance encounter what are you on about the council knowing things you don't? I'm sorry but that sounds a wee bit paranoid..
I don't mean they know things about me, but for example they have a public health team who get info direct from the NHS, so are privy to confidential information.

This is normal.

I used to work in local government, I knew a lot of things then that I no longer know!

bibbitybobbitycats · 03/09/2020 15:34

There just seems to no end to all and you can’t move for social distancing messages, masks, hand washing and hysterical people screaming “Covid Covid Covid” at me all day

I don't recognise this at all. Where I am people are just getting on with things and there is no hysteria, no screaming about Covid and I'm certainly not spending my day slaloming around social distancing messages. Where do you live@FrolickingFannyBoots?

Northernsoullover · 03/09/2020 15:38

My dad has been shielding. As I work from home and my young teens go nowhere we have been visiting (indoors) over the last few weeks. Now they are going back to school we are reverting to outdoor visits again Sad

bibbitybobbitycats · 03/09/2020 15:39

I agree it is all a bit shit at the moment though and it's hard not to get a bit down at times.

annabel85 · 03/09/2020 17:29

@Pikachubaby

The problem is the large civil service

Sorry if it offends anyone but the large majority are a bit work shy, our local council only work 10-4pm as it is, and now they are mostly at home, it suits them, they want to stay.

As their jobs are not dependent on profit or turnover, they can stay at home forever. Why not, no impetus to get back.

Similar for Unis, lots already decided not to go back at all for 2020/2021

They decided this already way back in April

Schools were different as they are about childcare and needed to open again so people with industry jobs could go back

But honestly, this country is making itself financially/emotionally sick and I blame the bureaucrats

Most people are happier working from home, yes, away from the commute, the dreadful packed and unreliable cattle trains, the clogged motorways, the open plan office and have enjoyed the alternative. However, the civil servants aren't choosing to stay at home; in a lot of these offices they cram as many desks in as possible and there's a very restrictive capacity due to social distancing measures in place from the government.
Malteserdiet · 03/09/2020 19:15

@FrolickingFannyBoots
Please can you run for prime minister? I couldn’t agree with you more. I dropped my kids at school today and just felt so sad walking past the secondary school children going in with masks covering half their face. How anyone can say that things have mainly gone back to normal now is beyond me. Even when I am driving through town, the masked people everywhere is a horrible reminder of how ridiculous the world has become.

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