I think people seem to have forgotten what benefits are meant to be for, short term help to get you through a difficult situation or to support those who genuinely cannot work eg older people (pensions) and the long term disabled. £60,000 is far more than they would receive in even 2 years, bereavement benefits are paid on top. I'm not sure what people would expect - allow the tax payer to give payments to one family with £60k because they died of x but not another because they died of something else?