We were doing the supermarket shopping for an elderly relative who is 89 in sheltered housing and who has three risk factors for covid. He's refusing to stay in and drove to two different coffee shops for coffee in one and lunch in the other and then to the supermarket and then to B and Q for a 'look round'. He knows I think this is not sensible.
There is a restaurant where he lives which is socially distanced where he can get all his meals and he can afford this, it's good quality food according to him, and social rooms which are again distanced. He won't use those because he doesn't want to be with other people due to the risk of covid. He's also been out to the barbers. We are not allowed to visit, nobody Is but he has an outside door so we go weekly and stay 2m away.
My DCs and I are vulnerable but not shielding, my work is an increased risk because of my job but I'm on annual leave now. He wants me to meet him in coffee shops but I have said no and offered to meet in the park which he walks in and bring coffee and cakes all round as he does this with his friend. He refuses and wants me to got to a coffee shop.
Wwyd?