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Employment rights, no childcare

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Hulahoop32 · 29/06/2020 13:26

I work as an office administrator and was told to work from home in mid-March. In April I was put on furlough as was my oh. My oh returned to work 2 weeks ago (only the managers are in, all other staff are still on furlough at his place and he’s needed there).

My boss called me last week and said they want to look at me returning in mid July for 1 or 2 days per week but said he understands it may be difficult due to childcare (I have 3 children aged 4, 9 and 12). And said they will do what they can to be understanding etc.

My oh said he would ask work about 1 day a week where he could stay at home which is fine. However I emailed my boss this morning and said I hoped to have an answer this week he emailed back stating they need me back in the next 1-2 weeks for minimum 2 days. He wrote a long piece about the measures put in place at the office and I replied pointing out that or the phone he said one or two days and that I’m not worried about returning to the office but obviously I can’t without childcare. My elderly grandmother used to care for my youngest during the holidays but the past year she’s developed bad eyesight and isn’t medically well enough to care for 3 children. Ohs mum is working from gone so isn’t an option either

What can I do? And what are my rights?

OP posts:
BernadetteRostankowskiWolowitz · 29/06/2020 14:49

Is it possible for you to do your two days a week from home? Or one in the office and one at home?

Gogogadgetarms · 29/06/2020 14:52

workingfamilies.org.uk/articles/coronavirus-returntowork/

Sites like this are useful. They seem to confirm you can be dismissed if you refuse to return to the office.

Hulahoop32 · 29/06/2020 15:17

Thanks for the replies. I know my employer isn’t being unreasonable and it’s not what I was insinuating (saying one day and. Hanging it to two at the last minute, I said was unfair) and I do know I’ve been lucky to have this long off work as well. I haven’t treated it as a holiday though. I don’t want to go into my finances too much but no I haven’t been able to save up for childcare. Unfortunately there’s aren’t many people who could help out but I know that’s not their concern. I just hoped I could hear other people’s experiences.

OP posts:
Dcadmam001 · 29/06/2020 15:28

How old are your children? depending on ages would it be possible to use a teenager who is not at school to babysit ( ie someone year10 or above?)

EmperorCovidula · 29/06/2020 15:32

Do you know anyone with a nanny? They may be willing to do a temporary nanny share? Anyone who is still on furlough and will do it for what you can afford?

Uhoh2020 · 29/06/2020 15:32

@Hulahoop32 have you applied to see if you are eligible for any help with child care costs from UC if your income is now lower? I know it's not all paid for but some help is better than none at all.

iLovee · 29/06/2020 16:30

Is your 4 year old in reception? They can go into school. Could your 12 and 9 year old can stay home and you go home in your lunch break? I feel for you OP this is a tough situation!

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