And missing learning, and falling behind, and worried about not having time to home educate and those that feel they are "failing" their DC.
This may make you feel better. It was an article that was shown to me when we started home educating way back when we did. (DC now back in school, well, were before CV!)
You got this :)
monkeymum.blog/2015/09/13/time-is-precious/
TLDR; 51 minutes a day is fine - and all they actually get at school! So don't compare to those who say they are doing eleventy billion hours of work.
Caveat: this is a primary school, NOT secondary.