Meet the Other Phone. A phone that grows with your child.

Meet the Other Phone.
A phone that grows with your child.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

Covid

Mumsnet doesn't verify the qualifications of users. If you have medical concerns, please consult a healthcare professional.

Please please help me. EX seeing our son

6 replies

Buzlightyear1 · 28/05/2020 18:42

So I've posted before about this but really need advice what to say. Ex is a herrione addict. I called the police to have him removed over a year ago. Social services got involved helped me. Said ex was to have supervised visits in open spaces in public. Which I kept to. I'm in the sheliding group and would require public transport to see him in do not belive for 1 second he's clean even though he pretending . He is on medication which also shows up as opiate so tricks the test which Dr is fully a wear of. Any way he's just called me and told me I have to give him money next week so he can buy a pad to do video calls as he doesn't have one. At the moment contact has been phone calls . I said no I can't afford to help u. So he started shouting at me and saying goes he is going to ride his bike here. What can I do. I will call the police if he turns up. But am I right in not letting him see our son. Or am I being a horrible person. ? Thank u

OP posts:
Redred2429 · 28/05/2020 18:46

If you are concerned that he may make you ill I don't think your being unreasonable do you think he will show up op? Or maybe an empty threat?

OnlyJudyCanJudgeMe · 28/05/2020 18:48

Don’t give him any money.
If he turns up then yes, phone the police. Don’t answer your door to him. I might also phone the police and tell them he’s threatening to turn up.
Good luck.

Tlollj · 28/05/2020 18:48

Tell him to fuck off. If he turns up call the police.

PasserbyEffect · 28/05/2020 18:50

Your concerns sound valid. Don't let him near you or your son. Maybe discuss your concerns with police/GP/social services. You and your son have a right to be safe.

Buzlightyear1 · 28/05/2020 18:54

Yes that is myour concern is that he will mare me ill. I really wouldn't be surprised if he shows up. He's very unpredictable this lock down has given me the space to see how manipulative he was being. He can turn so quickly which is why I will call the police if he turns up. I jIstanbul wanted to make sure I'm not being crazy. Thank you for your response. It really is apericated

OP posts:
Buzlightyear1 · 28/05/2020 19:02

I was thinking of calling the non emergency number just in case but didn't want to waste there time. But think I might. I always doubt myself cause the way he talks to me. Thank u all for the advice. I was scared I was being unreasonable. He's a horrible person sometimes . I really really do appreciate everyone advice . Thank u.

OP posts:
New posts on this thread. Refresh page
Swipe left for the next trending thread