OH putting me at risk??

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Should I be concerned? My partner keeps going round to his mates socially drinking and this mate works for the nhs (which I think is absolutely disgusting that’s he’s willingly putting peoples lives at risk) but I’ve read that a certain percentage of people dying have diabetes and that some people don’t even realise they have symptoms. I’m really worried I could get it if he unknowingly brings it back...

He is a selfish dick. Not sure I could have a relationship with such a man. Anyone who breaks the lockdown is putting others at risk.

**I'm a type 1 diabetic

Then yes you are more vunerable and he is putting you at risk.

Your partner and his mate are both selfish dicks. I'd take this as an indication of how much he actually cares about you & your health and get rid (I also have diabetes and this is what I'd do).

When I try and talk to him he just turns it into an argument saying he’s entitled to time to himself and that I’m overreacting. He doesn’t understand the seriousness of it and just does what he wants regardless. I've reported them to the police every time and they say they'll go round there but don't and I've also reported his friend to the trust as he's a nurse

Have you spoken to your partner and explained that diabetics are at serious risk of needing hospital treatment?

If you have and he’s not listening then I’d be reconsidering a relationship with someone who doesn’t seem to care about your wellbeing. Sorry

He’s a selfish, stupid bastard.

I honestly wouldn’t let him back in, he could stay at his friends house.

I have spoken to him about it but he doesn't think diabetes is a serious condition anyway. He says it easy to manage.

And I've told him the past few times not to come back but he doesn't listen when he's drunk. And he's the one on the tenancy agreement but I pay the rent

Seriously OP, he's sounding worse with each post. If it's only his name on the tenancy I'd just pack up and leave.

He is putting you at serious risk. I’d give him an ultimatum stop doing it now or leave. Sorry to be blunt but you deserve better!