would you allow your dd to spend weekend with bf

[EricaNernie]

when she comes back she shares a room with her dd
she could sleep in a tent for a week but probably not entirely feasible.

So the dd has a dd? I’m can’t work out the situation from your post (sorry-it’s early!).

How old is dd?

sorry,
how silly, it is early yes,
i have two dd's, currently both back at home, since lockdown, they share a room

What’s the set up with the friend of your DD? Has she been strictly self isolating? Or in a shared house? Anyone in the shared house a key worker/ vulnerable? Anyone in your house vulnerable/ a key worker.

You know there are risks of doing this, and the risks increase hugely depending on all of the above. Would I have my DC’s BF’s over for a sleepover? No. When the lockdown starts to lift, I know they’ll start to see friends and I have zero probs with that. But seeing friends and socially distancing (or attempting to) is very different to close friends sleeping over.

If you are ok with knowing all of that and increasing the risk, then go ahead.

Oh sorry I assumed BF = best friend. Just realised it could mean Boyfriend in which case they will not remotely be socially distancing (one iota).
How does your DD’s sister feel about it?

dd sister not happy tbh

It’d be a no from me.

Just no, I don't think now is the time to start loosening your interpretation of the lockdown. I can see it must be difficult for them to be apart but that's what we have to do now, as you know. Why can't they wait until the restrictions have actually been eased? Or if she goes to him she stays with him until lockdown is lifted.

thank you,, good idea @andynarwhal

No it’s not allowed at the moment.

No.

It’s not allowed at the moment, country is in lockdown due to a pandemic remember?