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Looking after sisters children

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MmmmWine · 05/05/2020 11:19

I just wanted a bit of advice before I take this any further.
Does anybody know the rules regarding looking after family member's children in exceptional circumstances?

My sister has 4 month old twins, born 6 weeks early and still waking multiple times a night (and a 3 year old!)
She is seriously struggling and I am very worried for her mental health.
Her husband is still going to work - key worker.
He is at breaking point too but is doing as much of the night shift as possible so she can get some sleep.

I am seriously worried about her.
She is not coping and is very upset when we talk.

I know this is likely to be against 'the rules' but would I be able to help by taking the twins overnight for her to give her a break and the chance to get some sleep?
My husband and I have been furloughed and haven't left the house for weeks (except for walks where we see no-one)
I know there will still be risks of us potentially having CV due to shopping deliveries we've been receiving but I'd like to think our risk to exposure has been minimal.

Please don't slate me if this is a complete NO Smile

OP posts:
user1487194234 · 05/05/2020 19:32

I would definitely do it
Hope it all works out

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