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Bored and depressed - what does everyone do to get thro the day

67 replies

Springcatkin · 04/05/2020 18:32

Only been furloughed for 3 days and already I can't cope. I feel so depressed and useless, have no contact with the rest of my team who are still working from home and now doing my work on top of theirs. Feel so isolated and BORED.
What do people do to get thro the days?
I haven't even managed to summon up enough energy to even go for a walk.
Cannot imagine how I will cope with a month of this Sad
I live with teenage ds who spends most of his time in his room / online schoolwork / chatting to his mates so altho I am not completely alone I have no adult company.

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ClientQ · 05/05/2020 01:58

I'm on my own and shielding so no walks but luckily I'm quite easily occupied Grin
Get up, have a couple of brews, sometimes in the garden
Shower, might mess with makeup if I feel like it
Postman usually arrives so check for whatever crap I've randomly bought
I've been doing some cleaning and organising so do an hour of that, I try not to do more so I can space it out a bit!
Pamper stuff like painting nails, youtube makeup tutorials
Cooking/baking, I batch cook for the freezer
Catch up online with friends and ring my dad
Afternoons I usually go out in the garden and have a chat with neighbour who is also shielding so we are a fair distance apart! If she isn't out then I get on with a book I'm reading or words with friends/nonograms
Evenings are usually FB, MN and tv

On a bad day it's TV, MN, and sofa

Didkdt · 05/05/2020 02:18

If you're wondering about MH talk to your GP
If someone else is wondering about your MH talk to your GP
Give yourself a few days to adapt
Then spend longer on activities you would normally do.
Spend longer preparing your meals
Try baking bread trust me kneading is very therapeutic
Find an online exercise class that you enjoy
Make sure you go out for your daily exercise
Think about a hobby you'd like to try and buy a kit
Read either using a kindle app or books
Make some face masks
Watch tv
Play a mindless game on your phone
Divide up your day
Text friends/colleagues
Watch Marie Kondo and sort through your stuff
It's not easy but has to be done

arstyfarty · 05/05/2020 02:22

I go for a walk, plan my day, bake, arts and crafts, mindfulness

Littlemiss74 · 05/05/2020 12:14

I am working from home p/t and trying to help dc. I have a mountain of other things I could be getting done but once I’ve finished working and schooling I can’t be bothered to do anything else.

Keep waking up during the night too so am tired. I’m feeling run down and just fed up. Think I would feel better if I could use the time to achieve something else like declutter this tip of a house but I just can’t seem to find the energy or motivation.

TabbyMumz · 05/05/2020 13:07

Go for a walk, or even a few!!! Find a hobby, clear out the cupboards, clean your oven. There must bd a million and one things to do.

LaneBoy · 05/05/2020 20:30

I’ve just signed up for a distance learning course with the local adult education people - they’re offering some free at the moment. No idea how involved it is but it’s a subject I was wondering about and it does get assessed etc so that should keep me busy for (maximum) 15 weeks

Sarcelle · 05/05/2020 21:35

After the worry of the first few weeks, around catching it, shortages in food, the fact that society seemed to be going mad I settled down. I feel the most relaxed now than any time in my life.

I want to be able to go to the seaside, to national trust properties etc but not bothered by anything else. Quite happy to live like this for many months. I read, I exercise at home (sometimes that is me just dancing around like a sweaty maniac), I listen to music, go for a daily walk, eat well, long baths, lots of grooming. My hair is deep masked, my skin moisturised, nail painted, defuzzed - never been so groomed !

frippit · 05/05/2020 21:47

I think you eventually get into a routine to suit you and your interests. I've got into excercising first thing or a walk along the prom early when quiet. Then breakfast and hop in the hot tub with a capacino. It's great for arthritis and aches and pains. Then a bit of work or gardening (I work part time from home at the mo).
Then husband and I make a nice lunch, then work, garden, sunbathe, laze about, a beer for husband and coffee for me, evening meal then a walk in local woods at dusk. I send my 3 granddaughters an activity parcel every week. They're into butterflies at the moment. We have little chats on whatsapp video too. Also chat out the window over the fence on a stool with neighbours. Feels like a holiday without the holiday.

Sarcelle · 05/05/2020 22:00

Following on from @LaneBoy - you could look at OU short courses. Lots of free stuff at the mo.

WinterIsGone · 05/05/2020 22:18

You could start doing family history. There's so much info online, and you can phone relatives to get more information.

I have an allotment that takes a lot of my time. I think of it as being my job. Smile

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awaywiththecircus · 05/05/2020 22:22

This is why I’m a bit jealous of people who’ve been furloughedBlush

Womenwotlunch · 05/05/2020 22:32

I write a list daily and tick it off throughout the day.
I wake up about 5;30am
Shower
Thirty minutes read
30 minutes listen to French podcast
Go for a brisk walk - walking is underrated
Cleaning
MN
HILT exercise
Work related stuff

Other days, I don’t do anything but laze around. I refuse to be pressured into doing things just to appear busy.

Ifonlywecouldwishuponastar · 05/05/2020 22:37

It's alright if you can go out for a walk. However, I've been told I can't go out and I'm starting to feel fed up now. I envy people that post selfies of their walks or bike rides.

Hairwizard · 05/05/2020 22:48

Im pissed off cos stuck at home with ds6 dd2 and dt10mths. I get zero time for myself til they all go to bed. Fking long day when you are awake from 5.30/6ish. Ds has lost all motivation for school work which means i spend my morning nagging/chasing to get it done. Neverending piles of dishes. They wont stop eating. Cant get into gym (home gym in garage) as i just cant focus when they are all in there aswell.
I just want to get out and mooch around the shops at my leisure while ds and dd at school/nursery.

Thank god for the good weather and big garden. And baking. They love that. Trying to keep screen time reasonable.
I did manage to get some study time in today finally. Everything crossed i get this again tmw.

Hairwizard · 05/05/2020 22:52

I keep saying this but really i would have no bother doing this if dc were older/ i didnt have them🤣🤣
I could do what i liked when i liked. I had thought great i can get all this diy shit and clearing out done while we are all home..😒 im lucky my floors are getting mopped once a week!😳😳

TheHarryFormerlyKnownAsPrince · 05/05/2020 23:37

I have four dc. I think I’m very lucky personality wise that I am thriving in lockdown. For me this is the easy part and the return to normal will be the hard part. I feel sinking dread when anyone mentions easing lockdown.

I say that not to show off but just to highlight that it’s pure luck for some of us that we are finding it easy, it’s not some supreme act of will or being better at coping. It would be easy to read lists of things people are doing and feel depressed not to be getting joy from those things? I hope I’m making sense.

Anyway, four dc. We get up in a relaxed manner and don’t get going properly til mid morning. I might play a board game with them while I drink a coffee or several. They might play in the garden or with toys. The secondary age one doesn’t surface til nearly lunchtime.

I’m mainly playing with dc and doing home ed type things with them. Couple of focused tasks, bit of art and craft, some time to go through the older ones’ work and encourage them to answer fully and check answers.

We walk the dogs all together for at least an hour.

Play a board game or two. Quite often watch a film all together in the evening. Sometimes I just read my book alongside the man reading theirs but they do chatter!

We’re doing our own thing schoolwork wise (apart from the secondary age one who is following what the school send and I’m supporting him to do it but supplementing it a bit). Lots of free play, baking, cooking, board games. It sounds very Waltons but they do bicker!! But I would honestly do this forever given the choice. It’s just down to personality. I find the demands of the outside world and rushing around stressful.

I chat to my friends via message a lot. I don’t reallyzoom or Skype but the kids have.

TheHarryFormerlyKnownAsPrince · 05/05/2020 23:38

Oh I have volunteered one morning a week too. That’s always an option. Plenty of charity work going on at the moment.

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