I did my PhD in a subject relating to gender and medicine, looking at the systemic gender bias within the medical and pharmaceutical industries, and the ways in which female pain is marginalised, drugs prescribed primarily in women tested exclusively in men, and drugs for conditions considered “female conditions” not adequately tested, because of the strong culture of male being the default.
The issue with thalidomide is that drugs for “female problems” like morning sickness are often not tested on women. Drugs intended for use in pregnancy are even harder, since there are obvious issues with using pregnant women as Guinea pigs. Thalidomide was never tested on pregnant women, so there was no way to predict the possibility of birth defects.
For what it’s worth, thalidomide was such a major scandal it changed the entire way that drugs are tested.
I’m currently involved in testing of a PMDD drug which is of course being exclusively tested on menstruating women, and it’s amazing how relatively little has been done in this area before.
Personally, knowing what I know about drug testing, I would have no issue taking a vaccine, because any vaccine cleared for human use will be safe. I have no concerns at all about “rushed vaccines” because that just isn’t a thing.