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Aunt wants to swap big house for small.

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Maybe111 · 18/04/2020 12:40

My aunt lives in a very big house. It's 6 bedroom with 30ft attic room. 3 bathrooms .30ft kitchen ,unity room, double oven , 120ft garden very wide aswell and in back of garden granny annexe the size of a small apartment with power and toilet. She also has separate dining room and 2 living rooms. Space for 4 cars on drive.

I live in a flat she has proposed to swap my flat for her house ?. This will be temporarily as she doesn't like to be by herself in a house that size and she doesn't like the cleaning. The grass in very long garden and doesn't feel safe in house on own as she only uses one room.

I am used to living in a flat . I would have to cover the bills but not council tax . She will pay my bills will it be a big difference from my 2 bedroom flat. I have 3 children ?

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Maybe111 · 18/04/2020 16:27

London

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leckford · 18/04/2020 16:37

Assuming she owns this large house with no mortgage, if she dies who will inherit it? If it is you will you be able to pay the IHT?

Maybe111 · 18/04/2020 17:12

I wouldn't know she owns 2 other properties and she will be paying council tax as it quiet high stjones

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vera99 · 18/04/2020 17:16

I would so love photos ....

GrimmsFairytales · 18/04/2020 17:21

My flat is in the same town so she knows everything around here.

London

So your Aunt owns a 23 room property with a 120ft garden in London.

Hmm
Maybe111 · 18/04/2020 17:24

She live in st John's wood the houses are even bigger then hers

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Maybe111 · 18/04/2020 17:29

Can I see some picture of your houses as well. I will ask her later if she gives me permission.

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Rainbowshine · 18/04/2020 17:43

You’ll need to check if your home insurance would be valid. If you allow guests to stay without you there for a longer period it can be excluded in some policies.

C8H10N4O2 · 18/04/2020 19:09

Large house and garden in St John's Wood? Is your aunt Kate Moss?

EmpressMcSchnozzle · 18/04/2020 19:13

Ask to see a couple of previous bills to give you an idea of the financial hit. And maybe ask her just to confirm in a letter or something that she's willing to cover the council tax? I take it you'll still be paying the council tax on your flat? And as others have said, that's quite a lot of garden if you're not keen on gardening!

Loving the people saying you won't need the heating on this time of year - I think we've turned our radiators off once since Christmas, and that's in the West Country! (And I grew up in a county where it could snow in August....)

GrimmsFairytales · 18/04/2020 19:16

Loving the people saying you won't need the heating on this time of year - I think we've turned our radiators off once since Christmas

This surprises me, we've had a lovely spell of warm weather over the last month. Easter was especially nice.

FlamingoAndJohn · 18/04/2020 19:19

It depends on the house. Big old houses tend to be cold in my experience.

She should sell the house. A house that size in London would be worth a fortune.

MsPavlichenko · 18/04/2020 19:22

Hearing on here. Central belt in Scotland. Sunny days but cold at night, and often daytime too.

MsPavlichenko · 18/04/2020 19:22

Heating.

stella1know · 18/04/2020 22:07

Sounds perfect. Is there a catch though???

terrigrey · 18/04/2020 22:52

Makes no sense that she wants to stay in your flat for 6 months. Why doesn't she rent out her place and buy a flat to live in?
Are you and your aunt British?

HoffiCoffi13 · 18/04/2020 22:56

After the 6 months will she go back to living in one room in her mansion, with 9 unused TV’s? Why? Why doesn’t she just sell it?

Maybe111 · 18/04/2020 22:59

Yes British

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SavageBeauty73 · 18/04/2020 23:01

Wow that's a 5 million pound house at least. Can she adopt me?

Claireshh · 18/04/2020 23:07

Is she offering because she feels bad for your children being in a flat during lockdown?

aWeaponCalledtheWord · 18/04/2020 23:53

you are Kate Middleton and i claim my five pounds.

Ellmau · 19/04/2020 00:21

Is she aware the council tax will increase by 25% if you move in?

GrumpyHoonMain · 19/04/2020 00:25

Do you think she’s anxious about CV and is indirectly asking you to move in with her without saying it? I think combining households is a better idea tbh. That way she gets the security of other people (house that size she can still have her privacy).

terrigrey · 19/04/2020 19:24

Aweapon Grin

MrsMummyBx · 19/04/2020 23:18

Sounds amazing! I’ll go if you don’t want to Grin

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