I have been known to be a 'worried well', which dates back to having undiagnosed glandular fever as a teen and feeling like I was going mad.
This has recently been re-triggered by deaths of several people close to me who did 'just' have backache, or a cough, or a sore throat. I have told my doctor that I have health anxiety, for full disclosure, however the few referrals I have had have been suggested by them, not me.
Recently I went to a GP having had backache for six months. I was referred to a physio who was very dismissive but the exercise he gave me got rid of it. Should I not have bothered? Was this just me being a burden?
I questioned being sent to a&e by 111 when I had a baby with a high temperature; I had rung over a bank holiday to ask if it was OK for a baby to still have one three days on. New parents don't have mums and grandparents living near by anymore to ask these things to. I was just worried - not intentionally being a time-waster.
My very young DS was also referred by an ex-paediatrician GP for several things which turned out to be nothing. None of these things were pushed in a particular direction by me. I wouldn't have been a good parent if I hadn't had these things checked out. He wouldn't have been a good GP if he hadn't referred us. I have seen social care notes - 'why didn't the parent take them to a doctor?' is something often questioned.
The people I feel really take up GP and a&e time are people with severe mental health disorders. A&E staff are known to be very dismissive of people with borderline personality disorders. Social care doesn't have the capacity to properly help them. Mental health situations can become critical on days or at times when there are no GP appointments.
I know a mum whose child is constantly in a&e, who always turns out to be fine, and yet this has not been picked up by professionals as in my unprofessional opinion a potential case of Munchausens by proxy.
On the other hand I know someone else who was told her fainting episodes were 'due to her age' and it turned out to be pancreatic cancer.
I personally feel it's wrong for anyone professional to be dismissive of the 'worried well' (who are probably so worried they don't want to go to a doctor at the moment!) or for non-professionals to heavily criticise a system which can and does prevent things which are often symptomless until it's too late.
And let's not forgot the systematic underfunding of healthcare by the Tories since 2010. People shouldn't feel guilty for needing a GP appointment. People should be angry it's often so difficult (present situation excluding).
That said, I am sure that telephone and email GP appointments can only be a good thing for the future.