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Does anyone else know anyone who thinks ‘household’

38 replies

Whatisthepoint2020 · 08/04/2020 06:58

Extends to their partner they don’t live with/their parents and still going to their houses is ok?

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Cooper88 · 08/04/2020 07:00

Nope. Household is who lives in your house with you. Same house only. That's the rules.

Cosyjimjamsforautumn · 08/04/2020 07:03

Er ..no!

madcatladyforever · 08/04/2020 07:08

For goodness sake how many more of these questions?

If people haven't "got" this yet and are still wandering about in other people's homes we're going to be in lock down for the next 5 years!!!
Stay in your own dwelling. Don't go anywhere else and don't see anyone else.
It isn't rocket science.

OuterMongolia · 08/04/2020 07:09

I don't personally know anyone who thinks this.

Bluesheep8 · 08/04/2020 07:14

I hope I don't know anyone who thinks this.

DameXanaduBramble · 08/04/2020 07:14

Are people really that thick?

MinorArcana · 08/04/2020 07:19

My next door neighbours seem to think that “household” extends to both sets of their parents.
I don’t think I’ve seen a day go past without one or both sets of parents dropping in for a visit.
The male next door neighbour is a key worker too, so he’s off out to work most days. Presumably that puts him at higher risk of catching CV-19.

I’d guess the parents are all under 70, so not in the very high risk group, but even so.

bulletjournalbilly · 08/04/2020 07:19

Yes some people are that thick. Putting us all at risk. This disease is no longer just attacking the vulnerable ..... it's healthy, fit and young people too.

I have no idea why people think this is a joke.

The nightingale was obviously built for shits and giggles!

Stay AT HOME

LolaSmiles · 08/04/2020 07:23

Yes. Some people are that stupid.

Trou · 08/04/2020 07:24

Household - in the way the govt. mean it isn't exactly an everyday word. I'm sure lots of people don't know that meaning of it. I notice the messaging has got a bit clearer now and they sometimes have replaced it with 'people who you live with'.

ArriettyJones · 08/04/2020 07:25

No!

I take it you’re dealing with a complete idiot?

Sounsociable · 08/04/2020 07:27

I know some 20 somethings that have left home who regularly drop into their dads house (hes a key worker) with his encouragement.

MockersxxxxxxxSocialDistancing · 08/04/2020 07:28

Maybe better if everyone, especially govt, said 'home.'

This is archaic vocabulary. The household was the family plus the domestic staff. Shades of 'Members of the jury, is this a book you would want your wives and servants to read?'

Harrykanesrightsock · 08/04/2020 07:30

I work with a women who constantly shares FB posts about stay at home and rants at ‘idiots’ who are out. Then visits her boyfriends house three or four times a week. Some people are just thick.

hopeishere · 08/04/2020 07:31

Some people just can't accept that "rules" apply up them.

Look at the Scottish CMO - if everyone thinks they can bend the rules in some tiny way because it's "just" them doing it then that's how we end up in continuous lockdown.

coachman · 08/04/2020 07:31

The wording in the letter from Boris Johnson says your should not meet friends or relatives who do not live in your home'. Everyone should understand that - it's clear.

coachman · 08/04/2020 07:32

'You' not your, sorry.

majesticallyawkward · 08/04/2020 07:41

Plenty, and all idiots.

One I know is still taking her dd to her moms house every couple of days because she doesn't see why she shouldn't.... this person and her dh are front line and driving 10+ miles each way to drop the kid off.

Another I saw a picture on fb of a ' social distancing' street party where everyone was out in their gardens with drinks, all have small fences so could chat but loads were leaning over and maybe 2ft apart and the kids were all running in and out of all the gardens/sitting on negligent laps etc

And a close friend openly says the rules don't apply because they hardly see anyone else anyway so won't stop having family over.

NeurotrashWarrior · 08/04/2020 07:47

Yes friend's ex is seeing his gf and her son, don't live together. Then also seeing his daughters. Sometimes all at the same time.

He's a dr too ffs..

Tigger001 · 08/04/2020 07:50

No, household is people who live within your house.

I don't know anyone who would think differently, I would assume it would be just trying to justify ignoring the guidance.

coldwarenigma · 08/04/2020 07:57

I have come across of these-
-the woman with DC that says if sister and her DC, her mother, her brother only see each other then its no different than if they lived together.
-the woman who picks up mum (over 70), brings her to her house to look after DS, while she works
-the guy who thinks if he only sees the same people and they only see each other its fine

WanderingLost167 · 08/04/2020 08:48

Well there is confusion as kids who are in shared custody count as one household. Our two move from two houses every few days.

Apart from the fact they are children, its technically the same as us visiting another family member in another house

BigChocFrenzy · 08/04/2020 09:04

Some people will interpret or stretch the rules / govt advice to allow them to continue doing the things they really want to,

whether that is socialising with friends and family
or shopping trips for single items like wine or ice cream
or umpteen runs / cycle trips / long dog walks
etc

Rules are for other people

RarePackOfLooRoll · 08/04/2020 09:22

Excellent effort at finding a way to bend the rules.

I get household may be a weird term for some but surely by now you get the message??

Are you really saying that despite everything of the past 2 weeks you really do think people can see others that don't live in their house??

Mascotte · 08/04/2020 09:25

In New Zealand you can have a quarantine buddy you don’t live with if you observe the same rules and don’t see anyone else.

It’s not the case here, but I actually think it’s a very good idea.