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Self-isolating over 70s

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fadingfast · 05/04/2020 18:49

My mum is in her late 70s and lives alone. She has a close 'man friend' who lives around the corner. They usually spend lots of time together, going for walks/pub lunches/meals at each others houses. Not long before the lockdown they had been on a two week holiday together.
They are now both social distancing (separately), and being very careful. Mum is getting food delivered and is only going out for short walks. She is very active and good at keeping herself occupied, but as this goes on I'm really worried about the effect on her mental health.
I suppose my question is, although I know it's against the rules (and they are sticking to the advice), how/why is it different to if they lived together? If they are each social distancing, what's the risk of seeing each other? I'm just struggling to understand the logic of the rules.

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Katinski · 05/04/2020 19:00

NOT MY MUM BUT...time to tell them both to stop fannying around, close one home up for the duration and live together in the other?

fadingfast · 05/04/2020 19:24

Yes Katinski I agree that sounds like a good idea and my sister did broach the subject, but I think both of them are used to having their own space and living together has just never been on the cards. But maybe as this goes on (and on) they will change their minds. I suppose logically I just can't understand how that would be different to keeping separate houses.

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