I'm not saying the discussion is wrong, while ther opppaite. That letter was appalling, and sending it out to 8 year olds is a travesty.
'We are encouraging all our patients to consider the approach to treatment options, should you unfortunately become ill with the covid 19 virus.
The options usually available are x,y, and z,
but we understand they won't be the best option for all our patients. Depending on how the illness progresses in individuals, not all options may be available, if, for example sustaining life can only be effective for a short amount of time.
Within the current setup, you do have a right to opt out of certain treatments/life support. If you feel this is an approach you would be likely to take, or you would like more information, please read the accompanying leaflet, and complete the attached form.
If you have any questions at all, please contact us and we will organise a telephone call at a mutually convenient time.'
Something like that? Took 10 minutes for me to type. Granted, not perfect, but 10 minutes and no medical qualifications; they should have come up with something a damn sight better than that letter they put out.