Some care homes , please remember how unbelievably difficult a job it is to maintain social distancing.
Yes some homes will not be following rules and they should be absolutely but the majority will be working incredibly hard to protect their residents
I teach and assess in care but used to be frontline for a very long time and many of my friends are still there. Firstly dependant on the home the residents may not understand the changes needed and not be able to social distance, staff managing that makes it very challenging.
Believe me the shortage of PPE is terrifying for them as well, they have always used PPE far before this as it's a requirement, but the stocks have dried up intensely. Homes are begging for help with PPE from the local authority and not getting a lot of support. They cant just randomly refuse to deliver personal care when the deliveries stop coming so what do you expect them to do?
Your mum may have full capacity but many in homes dont and are terrified and will be genuinely frightened if carers stay away from them.
Room layout is more often than not on a risk or medical need basis with minutiae most lay people have absolutely no concept of, there are requirements for moving and positioning space needed , hoist moving , etc.
Finally the one bit that really pisses me off about your post is the comment that carers just think that it doesnt matter if old people get it and die. These carers go in for often 12 to 18 hour shifts, they have an incredibly difficult job even without the virus , most have been locked down for weeks already , they spend all day delivering personal care , trying to keep people stable an happy , when the food deliveries started delaying , the PPE started coming. See I still speak to my learners o remote where I can. Most of them are working double shifts , Managers who are sleeping in their offices , tracking down their own PPE to protect residents , homecare carers who are having to self isolate still agreeing to ring and make contact three times a day to an isolated client who needs human contact. People dont understand care services at the best of time and now you think it's ok to say they dont care if their residents die???
Unless you have any concept of what professional care requires dont comment. You have no idea how bloody hard most decent homes and carers are working.