Opinions please

[Adviceneeded24601]

Hi everyone, I'm desperately in need of advice, I've just had my 4th miscarriage, my partner lives 50 miles away and I haven't seen him since it happened, I'm not selfish I've been self isolating for almost 2 weeks due to diabetes and pregnancy. Do you think I dare risk driving to see him. I'm not sure i can get thought this without him

Oh darling. I’m so sorry. When did it happen? If it was very recent which it seems like it was, I would not get on the road right now because you could feel faint or unwell while driving. Can you video call your partner? Can you ask him to drive to you?

I'm so sorry.

Can he come to you? I can't imagine you are in the best place to be driving right now.

Was it gestational diabetes or are you permanently diabetic? If the latter, try not to forget your own safety in your pain. Depending on whether your partner works or what his movements have been, he could be a risk to you.

But no, I think it's totally understandable for you to drive to him if it's the only way of getting any comfort.

I'm so sorry, Adviceneeded. What a horrible experience.

Keep warm, nurture yourself, feet up or in bed. Nice comforting drinks. Check your bleeding, if it seems too much ring the emergency line.

You can't drive to your partner nor he to you at the moment. It's sad you're alone but you will get through this. Try to sleep as much as you can. x