Apologies that this is kind of a TAAT but I don't want to hijack a thread about a loved one who may be dying.
Given the current situation, I am growing increasingly concerned that older patients will feel morally obliged to refuse extraordinary measures, including ventilation.
DM is 79 and in really good health with no medical conditions but I have already heard her talk about having had a good innings etc.
I know for a fact that she is someone who would insist that others be treated before her and if she feels there is a shortage of medical supplies, she would refuse care for herself in case she needed it.
Because people are understandably not allowed visitors, they won't have family to support them or advocate for them.
Of course, if someone wants to refuse care, that should be totally respected, but is there a mechanism to ensure that elderly people don't feel obliged to turn down treatment?