Please don't have a go.. I'm trying to do the right thing and looking for gentle opinions.
Without hesitation, I had offered to pay my cleaner whilst she couldn't come as DH and I are both able to work from home and are still earning. The reality is we are run ragged taking it in turns to look after toddler DS and cram our work in. We're grateful life isn't worse for us, but we're already exhausted. And I'm pregnant. Having a cleaner has always been a luxury but it felt worth the money when I returned to work from mat leave. If I had the cash back, I'd love to spend it on a couple of takeaways instead and put our feet up, plus we're only managing to keep the house superficially clean, and I think it will need a big deep clean wherever this is all over,which will cost more.
Given what's been announced, I wonder what I do now? I'd initially said three weeks and review because that's what the PM said for the stay at home period. Would it be ok to ask her then if she's registered for support? She's texted a few times telling me how bored she is at home, which given my exhaustion is really starting to grate. If she does register and I keep paying then she's quids in for doing nothing. I'm aware it's not 100% so could I offer 20%? (I think the government help should be 80%).
Sorry for rambling.