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Is husband being selfish or am I over reacting

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pippylongsocks · 24/03/2020 23:57

Husband works in the building trade, self employed with a small team of lads working for him.
After the announcement of lockdown on Monday night we assumed that meant we would both stay home with our 2 young children until told otherwise. We both discussed how fortunate we are to not have any financial pressure as we have saved well over the years so have a big rainy day fund. I am self employed aswell but work from home anyway in a non customer facing role and have pretty much said I will stop working until the nurseries/schools open up again. I am happy to forgo my income and focus 100% on the children and adhering to the rules.
Come this morning and it turns out everyone of his mates/other trades have gone to work today as normal. I imagine purely for financial reasons as they are also self employed. Husband then starts telling me that if he doesn't go in to do his job, then other trades won't be able to do their job and it will be his fault they can't earn money.
He's now told me he is going to work tomorrow. I asked if it was essential, and he said no.
We are constantly watching the news so it's not as if he's burying his head in the sand thinking this isn't such a big deal.
I don't know if I am being dramatic about this but I really do interpret the advice to mean you should only be going to work if it's essential. Not go to work on non urgent jobs when you don't need the money as long as you stay 2 metres apart from others. Am I right? Or is he?

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Randomschoolworker19 · 25/03/2020 00:12

I would say building work is pretty essential and he will be wearing PPE too.

MigginsMrs · 25/03/2020 00:13

Was his business closed down by the government?

Hannah021 · 25/03/2020 00:28

i dont blame you... It is a bit selfish...
tell him, he's gona have to go elsewhere and not come home if he wants to expose himself. Your children deserve his protection... Not this behaviour... not everything is about money

pippylongsocks · 25/03/2020 00:35

He won't be wearing PPE at all... he's an electrician.
No his business hasn't been shut down by the government.
I wouldn't be able to send him to live elsewhere as we are all supposed to be staying away from each other!

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