Mum in nursing care

[mummyje20]

My mum is in a nursing home which has been locked down apart from 'exceptional circumstances' until now. So now I am also in lockdown, If she got very sick, would I be allowed to see her?

Anybody? ☹️

I work in a nursing home under lockdown. Our policy is that visitors are allowed to residents requiring palliative care only, two visitors at a time. These visitors have to sign disclaimers and have their temperature checked before entering the building. They have to follow stringent handwashing rules as well. I can't imagine you would be prevented from making the journey. I'm sorry you are separated from your mum. We are finding it heartbreaking for our residents and relatives but trying our best to keep them in contact with Skype, picture messages etc. Look after yourself, your mum will be well looked after.

Thank you, I didn't expect such a lovely reply. Thank you so much for all you are doing for the residents. It is the good care staff who make it just about bearable to leave my mum. Xx

I am very very sorry but as she is in a home I don't think you will be allowed to see her if she is ill.

I am not certain though as people can leave home to take care of vulnerable people Maybe call the home tomorrow and ask them.

Be aware though that they may not yet know and may need to check things out themselves. There will be lots of questions to answer over the next few days.

Sorry cross post. Judef's post sounds encouraging

Oh no it sounds like maybe I won't be able to? Even if it's end of life care? 💔