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Larger families.... shopping limits

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ThisMustBeMyDream · 18/03/2020 12:50

Anyone else having issues in getting enough food to make a meal for their family? I can't afford (nor have time) to make seperate meals for everyone. But I can't get enough of the foods we eat as a family in some lines.

We use 4 packs of mushrooms and 5 packs of peppers per week. We are only allowed 3. Same for yogurts etc.

I am working, not from home. I don't have time for daily shopping as I finish at, rush back before after school club finishes and get the kids home for dinner which is already later than I'd like.

I have a delivery pass, but that appears to be totally useless at the minute. We are potentially to be isolating from today as one of the kids may possibly have a cough. Even if I could get a slot, I'd need several slots in the week and you can't even get half the stuff you need anyway.

We don't have anyone to bring us food either. 🤷

Is it worth approaching the supermarket manager to discuss individual requirements?

I saw a woman have 1 of her 4 muller bloody lights removed from her today. I mean I understand restrictions in some areas. But most people would not consider 4 yogurts excessive/panic buying.

Help!

OP posts:
squishedgrapes · 18/03/2020 14:26

I'm a single parent, all self isolating, three children with autism and food sensory issues, I have a stock of food, but getting a bit worried now. Three of my boys are six footers, so they eat like huge teenagers. Luckily I have the appetite of a mouse.

alloutoffucks · 18/03/2020 14:26

There are only 4 of us, and I can't buy enough to do a weeks shop. Not because of limits, there just is not enough food to buy.

Lunde · 18/03/2020 14:26

MauriceandAlec - Rationing during WWII was necessary, but sadly, it really wasn't enough to sustain people and so there was often a large deal of corruption.

Yes it was a really tough time - only those who were lucky to have access to extras could eat OK. My grandparents and mother had just moved into a small terraced house in East London and were lucky enough to have a small garden that could be dug up for vegetables to supplement the rations. (apart from the bit that was for the air raid shelter).

But things were very tough for DM growing up under wartime rationing. Things like her cooking for her O-level (GCSE) home economic practical exam and to be saved up from the family's rations to make the required "supper dish" and Victoria sponge and then had to be carefully wrapped and carried home for dinner.

Rationing also lasted for years. It was still in place for DM's wedding in 1953 so both families had to pool food coupons for the reception and it took months and all the clothing rations for the material to make a wedding dress.

alloutoffucks · 18/03/2020 14:28

I cam't get tomato puree anywhere, tinned tomatoes, lots of fresh vegetables, lots of fresh meat and of course loo rolls.

adaline · 18/03/2020 14:28

Why can't you buy tinned tomatoes and passata? Not quite the same but surely close enough, we all have to compromise at the moment

Have you been in a supermarket lately?! There's been no tinned tomatoes here for at least a week!

Astrabees · 18/03/2020 14:30

You need to introduce some variety into your meals and have pasta one night, rice the next and lots and lots of potatoes which you can buy direct from a farm or farm shop. Lots of the smaller village shops have supplies of sold out things so you can buy a tin or two there as well.
If you include lots of vegetables in your meals you can reduce the carbs, and add some pulses, dried pulses don't seem to be in short supply.

MrsKoala · 18/03/2020 14:32

No pasta sauce anywhere either not even in Poundland and poundstretcher.

No eggs in the shops too but we live 5 miles from a farm that sells them so I’ve had to get 12 duck eggs.

It’s easy to say adapt, but some people can’t.

ChanklyBore · 18/03/2020 14:33

Shopping every few days, in smaller, local shops, without travelling, when more local shops than ever are offering delivery, is good for a virus.

Right now on our high street, people are mostly entering small shops and being served one by one and others are waiting outside at a distance from one another, or using the other shops and coming back to the original one when it is empty. I have watched it happen this afternoon. It is absolutely in line with social distancing guidance, far more than hundreds queuing at multiple checkouts in the supermarkets - I’ve seen that, too, yesterday afternoon. People are carrying their shopping home in the fresh air. This is a good thing.

I can’t drive a car for health reasons. So I shop locally, despite having always worked full time. Part of using public transport is often walking to the high street to get the bus, then being deposited on the high street and walking the remaining distance home. That is how I ‘pootle about comparing produce’ I shop on the way to, or on the way back from, work most days, and pick up what is good, available, or cheap in amounts I can carry.

Now, I am redundant- so yes, I’m pootling, because there is no money coming in, and I’m not sure what is going to happen.

MrsKoala · 18/03/2020 14:33

No dried pulses round here either.

SchadenfreudePersonified · 18/03/2020 14:33

I'm concerned about having to shop for various over 70 family members soon who live on their own

Genuine question - was this a typo or do you have a crazy large family? Just nosey

I took this to mean family members who are aged over 70.

NoClarification · 18/03/2020 14:35

"Do a couple of shops a week instead of one, that way the demand for food is spread out and shops have more of a chance to restock and cope with demand."

That's fne until a family needs to self-isolate. Unfortunately stocking up is both the selfish and yet the sensible thing to do right now. There's no easy way to square that circle.

AvocadosBeforeMortgages · 18/03/2020 14:37

It's yet another death knell for my business. I often get ingredients in the supermarkets as it's cheaper than the wholesalers, and in some cases it's simply unavailable at the wholesalers. Buying 8 bottles of lemon juice is totally normal for me.

It's not adding to food shortages when it's returned to the supply chain (albeit in a different format) within the week.

BeijingBikini · 18/03/2020 14:40

If you think you've got problems, imagine what Sue Radford is dealing with rn!

Seventyone72seventy3 · 18/03/2020 14:40

Don't panic. If people don't overbuy it will calm down. In Italy it was like this for the first few days but then supply chains got sorted out and I have been able to get almost everything. Really interested in the number of peppers you seem to eat though - what do you do with them?

Babyroobs · 18/03/2020 14:41

Use local shops. We haven't been able to buy the stuff we normally would but just improvising really.

johnwayneisbigleggy · 18/03/2020 14:43

@adaline - yes, this morning actually. It's all gone because people are buying nine tins a week

alloutoffucks · 18/03/2020 14:45

@Seventyone72seventy3 Yes that is what I thought, a few days. It is about 2 weeks since I have seen toilet paper and the shortages are getting worse. There is so much now I can't get. And yes I have tried local shops.

ifonly4 · 18/03/2020 14:46

I've just returned from Tescos. All restrictions lifted as there's hardly anything left to sell, so very sadly OP's problem may be solved and a much worse one is occurring for hopefully a few days.

I bought broccoli yesterday, but there's nothing else veggie wise other than broccoli, so got another. Freezers empty. Many gaps. People haven't been too bothered about alcohol and pet food so far, now there's only 25%.

It was very quiet in there and staff seemed really low. They've not had an easy few days and now the place is virtually empty.

Seventyone72seventy3 · 18/03/2020 14:47

I think that's because it's still so uncertain in the UK so you have had waves of people panic buying!

adaline · 18/03/2020 14:47

@johnwayneisbigleggy oh I totally agree. Around here you've not been able to get toilet paper, soap, tinned tomatoes, rice, pasta or beans for a week. It's bonkers!

alloutoffucks · 18/03/2020 14:48

So in our shops no pasta, no rice, no toilet rolls, kitchen towel or tissues, no tomato puree or pasta sauces, little meat choice, few ready made meals, very limited vegetables and some days none at all, very limited types of fruit, very few types of cereals. It just seems to get worse every day. I bought a few things from COOK today because it was one of the few shops that had a decent stock of stuff.

SpillTheTea · 18/03/2020 14:48

You'll just have to go back for more like the rest of us. It's not the end of the world.

alloutoffucks · 18/03/2020 14:49

If it has just been for a few days it would have been fine. But I am starting to get worried now.

Escapetab · 18/03/2020 14:53

A lot of the people on here have clearly never tried to feed a larger family. Also, why does everyone seem to think that every area has smaller stores as an alternative to supermarkets? They don't. Think you'll just have to go to the shops more times OP, not ideal I know.

I've been vegan forever and my family usually live off all the bulk flours, pulses (as well as veg of course) etc that I can't get now because people are buying them all up. It's annoying because we're having to pay a lot more for tiny packets of stuff and money is v tight. But still lots of veg around here hopefully that won't change- but it does mean going to the store oftener which feels counterintuitive in an outbreak. Nothing to be done though I guess. My biggest (hopefully irrational) fear from the beginning of this in Jan has always been running out of food - not just my house, but the supply chains. I didn't buy extra because I didn't have the money to. Am glad that measures are being put in place to address shortages. I do sympathize though - I grew up in a household with ten kids and this would have been very hard for my parents. I'm glad nothing like this happened then.

middleager · 18/03/2020 14:55

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