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Worried about the poorest

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ninja · 18/03/2020 04:47

I feel like I've had a good grip on the current crisis, I've called it well. I've thought for a while that the events I had on next week wouldn't happen, I thought it was inevitable that schools would be closing by the end of the week (no point before we had people working from home and had started a culture of social distancing). I don't believe - like many still do - that it'll just be a long Easter, I think this is for the long haul ... months

While I think this is all inevitable and right I'm really worried for the poorest in society, the self-employed (as well as of course the most vulnerable) and I wonder how history will judge all the decisions we've made.

While the virus kills indiscriminate of wealth - poverty doesn't.

Last week I was criticising the government for putting the economy above the safety of people. I almost wish, however, that we could do a 'perfect' version of BJ's initial plan. Isolate the 20% most vulnerable somewhere completely safe and then let the virus rampage with minimal time off for work, no distancing and mostly life as normal

Don't get me wrong - I know this isn't possible, this isn't how it works and I'm absolutely supporting and following the guidelines.

I do wonder how many will die of poverty, how many businesses will close, how the self employed will cope, and what will be the mental heath of so many people at the end of this.

I'm lucky - I can work from home - I will get paid. I may lose a holiday but that's life. I hope I won't lose any loved ones ...

I want to do something to help - I have some savings, not much but maybe enough to stop a family going under and I wonder if somehow I can do that.

I haven't been worried about this virus really - yes I knew how serious it was, but I've found the whole thing really quite fascinating (I'm a mathematician so the modelling and simulation is really interesting.

I'm awake worrying now and no one to say this to - so sorry for the long post and the ramble - and the views that might seem quite incoherent.

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Sugarpea123 · 18/03/2020 04:51

I've just woken up to my 11 week old coughing. My partner started yesterday. He won't leave his job because we can't afford to. Yet I've told him we have food here so sod rent and bills. But he won't. I'm beginning to resent him for it. I have anxiety and depression and life is just horrible right now. I feel exactly the same as you. Thisnis all too awful :(

Sugarpea123 · 18/03/2020 04:52

And like you said it's going to have such a knock on effect. Injust don't see how society is going to survive this.

lovemydog301 · 18/03/2020 04:53

I feel the same. I notice the government is giving mortgage holidays to those affected financially, which is great. But what about those who are renting, those on low incomes who can't buy a house?

I'm not normally an anxious person, but this is starting to get to me.

TKAAHUARTG · 18/03/2020 04:55

I want to do something to help - I have some savings, not much but maybe enough to stop a family going under and I wonder if somehow I can do that.
Well. Yes of course you could. You could even do something without announcing it first if you really actually wanted to.

ninja · 18/03/2020 04:58

I'm announcing this on a anonymous forum - hardly going to get any credit here am I.

I think to truly get through we really have to come together as communities and hemp each other - maybe that's what I'm
saying

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SamSeabornforPresident · 18/03/2020 05:00

You could set up a regular donation to a local food bank. I've just done that. Fewer people shopping means fewer donations, just when it'll be needed most, so they'll be desperate for cash donations to buy supplies.

ninja · 18/03/2020 05:02

Good point - I was thinking that yesterday. So many more are going to need them :(

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HeronLanyon · 18/03/2020 05:05

Amongst everything else I’m really worried now about eg homeless, hostel residents, those in cramped B and B accom/emergency accom, inadequate LA housing, prisoners/detainees, children in la care, addicts, those with mental health conditions, carers, care homes, isolated elderly, hospitals and all those who work with/for all of these categories of our very most vulnerable and powerless.
Bloody hell - when I start to worry about loo roll or running out of coffee it all pales into insignificance. Well coffee is troubling me still I confess.

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