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Should we self isolate?

96 replies

Simba999 · 17/03/2020 18:21

My child has a cough and had a very slight temp yesterday but didn't require medication. He no longer has temp, but has a persistent cough, he went to school with the cough, his teacher ensured he was well hydrated. I thought the schoo may call me to come collect Dc, but they did not. He's obviously just got a normal viral cough, my other child had it before the corona business, I then had it and now my husband and this dchild. Coughs take months to get better, I still have mine slightly. Dh keeps commenting how we as a family should self isolate, however I don't think we should right?? Am I wrong?

Before a lot of people start saying I should think of the elderly vulnerable, it's a normal cough, so in reality this cough wouldn't be an issue if we didn't have Coronavirus going around.

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EggysMom · 17/03/2020 19:40

*Simba999" You may think that your son's cough and temperature, and your husband's cough, are related to the cold/cough that you and your other child had previously However the truth is that you cannot know that for sure. To your child, and to your husband, this is a NEW continuous cough (and a new high temperature). Therefore under the guidelines, the family needs to self-isolate: your son and your husband for 7 days or until better, whichever is later; and yourself and your other child for 14 days, to allow for the CV to infect you and then run its course.

I don't think the guidelines are clear. I don't think they are necessarily right. But I do think you should acknowledge that this is a new cough and therefore is of concern. You don't know that it's not CV.

NanFlanders · 17/03/2020 19:41

OP. It is possible that your son has a normal cough. Just like it's possible my son had a normal bug causing a fever last Thursday. But you don't know and neither do I - so we both need to do the right thing. .

Sweetpotatoaddict · 17/03/2020 19:42

@PotholeParadise exactly which makes it bizarre that the 14 day rule would apply to everyone in a household including the initial person with the symptoms.
And that there would be a different rule for someone with symptoms living with others, to someone living alone.

whiskeylullaby2 · 17/03/2020 19:42

The advice is SO clear. You should all be isolating now.

Honestly I don't know how much simpler it could be.

PenguinBlizzard · 17/03/2020 19:43

I'm getting so angry with all the selfish people who won't do what they're told!!!

MonsterRehab23 · 17/03/2020 19:47

Yes you should self isolate. We’re on day 1 of self isolation. DS who is hardly ever ill woke up with fever and mild dry cough this morning. So DP is now off work, DD is off nursery and im working from home- fun times (not).

Can’t be sure if this corona and in ordinary circumstances DS may be off school for a day or 2. But these are extraordinary circumstances so yes you should self isolate.

Really12345 · 17/03/2020 19:47

You do realise the common cold is a Coronavirus right, so in children this killer to the elderly Coronavirus often presents just like a normal viral cough...to then no worse than a normal cold, if however he’s given it to someone else like a an asthmatic teacher or little Johnny Who lives with his 90 yr gran they have a 6-20% chance of being dead in two weeks. Get you all at home now

Abracad · 17/03/2020 19:48

Can you use your incredible prescience and ability to determine which cough is corona to help the NHS direct their resources.

Fucking
Moron.

ilovecakeandwine · 17/03/2020 19:54

It still says 14 days for the whole family but if the person who is ill is better after 7 days then they can return to normal .
Your right it's not clear but it makes sense so by day 7 the person is either better so not cv or worse so you know to stay isolated.

PotholeParadise · 17/03/2020 19:54

SweetPotatoAddicts

exactly which makes it bizarre that the 14 day rule would apply to everyone in a household including the initial person with the symptoms.

I agree.

butIwontdothat · 17/03/2020 20:06

@PotholeParadise @ilovecakeandwine
I imagine the 14 days is because if the first person (a) shows symptoms of CV and becomes well within the 7 days that's fine.
Because we're not testing people we won't know for definite it was CV. It may just be a cold.
But if someone else in the household (b) on day 3 of the original 7 begins to show symptoms and it definitely is CV (a) who may have only had a cold, after another 4 days will go out spreading (b's) CV bugs.
14 days allows for everyone to recover from the cold or CV.

MrsFrisbyMouse · 17/03/2020 20:08

We have very little clarity on how the milder versions of Covid-19 present. It may very well be that for huge swathes of the population (esp children) it is nothing more than a mild cough/fever. But that same virus can still be spread to other more vunerable people, where is is proving to be catastrophically fatal. Hence the advice given for family isolation, to prevent the spread.

So yes, family isolation even if it feels like an over reaction to something so mild.

MrsFrisbyMouse · 17/03/2020 20:09

And it's 14 days because there is evidence to show that you are still contagious even after you are 'better'

Shineynew · 17/03/2020 20:10

Yeah stay off and lick old people.

FFS.

ilovecakeandwine · 17/03/2020 20:11

Yeah makes sense to me .
Definitely stay home op .

NanSlayer · 17/03/2020 20:13

This is going to be bad, really bad

People can hardly process their own life's, let along make the changes required for this.

Goingunderground2 · 17/03/2020 20:15

Yes and everyone else coughing in public makes it acceptable .... not!

iolaus · 17/03/2020 20:20

Genuine question @MrsFrisbyMouse or anyone else
In a household there are 3 people A, B and C

Person A (dad) wakes up and have a new cough and is a little warm on Monday - so family, as per advice, self isolate for 14 days
On the Sunday Person B (child) then starts coughing and the mum (C) then starts on the following Wednesday (so 9 days after person A) - this is how coughs tend to end up going in my family normal years - at what point do/can that family come out of self isolation?

Is it 14 days after person A started?
14 days after person C for all of them (so 23 days)?
Does A stay isolated - or can he go back to work after his 14 days on the basis that it's the same thing they all have and he is now immune

KittenVsBox · 17/03/2020 20:42

@iolaus

I think C needs to stay at home for 7 days after symptoms start. A and B are ok after 14 days. I've seen suggestions that A can go out after 7 days, but not sure about that bit (A for us is 10y, so a bit young to drive to tesco!).

MrsMartinKemp · 17/03/2020 20:56

Ffs do as you are told

HesMyLobster · 18/03/2020 00:03

@iolaus in your scenario I am person A. I started with symptoms on Wednesday and have been self isolating since Friday, after the 7 day guidelines were announced on Thursday evening.
So after the new guidelines, the other 4 people in my house are also now in quarantine for 14 days, and I was due to go back to work this Thursday. However I received an email from HR this morning that said in light of the new guidelines I would now be required to stay at home for 14 days from the start of symptoms.

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