I’m not coping...

[Mum2threejs]

I hold my hands well and truly up. I’m not coping. I’m swinging madly between it’ll be ok we will get through this to panic. I know I can’t be the only one. I work in hospitality so likely to loose my job this week, sent the kids off to school the last two mornings like they are germ bombs waiting to go off. Said my in person goodbyes to most of my family this weekend including my 90 y/o grandmother who’s more of a mum to me than my actual mum. Now I’m sitting here crying and trying not to panic because the sodding washing machine has decided not to work! I probably shouldn’t go to the laundrette, that’s against the social distancing but if I order a new one will they deliver it? They surely shouldn’t be fitting them I’m completely confused as to what to do. Things must have broken in people’s home in other countries though. Guess try to calm down so I can would be the place to start.
I know everyone is struggling at the moment and I feel for you all.... it can only get better in time right?

It's a shit situation but there are some things you can take action on, which may help you feel a but more in control:

Fitting a washing machine is actually much easier than you think. I've fitted a couple and I am an idiot where that kind of thing is concerned. Some good youtube videos around to talk you through it so don't worry about that one.

Have the kids change clothes as soon as they come home, preferably with a good shower to try and rid them of any germs. Maintain good hygiene yourself (how patronising does that sound?!?). Do what you can to minimise risk.

Encourage your relatives to do the same, especially the vulnerable.

This too shall pass

Try not to think of it all at once. Consider each problem one by one. If you can order a new washing machine, then do so. I imagine they will deliver and fit. ( If they don't fit, it is actually super easy- Ive done it myself twice following the instruction manual...). Remember, currently it's about cutting out unnecessary and social contact. Buying a new washing machine is necessary.
Re your Grandma, it is a difficult situation but try and focus on the fact that you are doing what is best for her in this situation. Keep in touch with her frequently by phone- that will be good for you both.
Try not to let things overwhelm you. Consider things one at a time.

Have you tried fixing the washing machine yourself? Ours has stopped working loads of times and I have always managed to get it going again. It's often just a blockage rather than something fundamental like the motors gone. What does the error say? Is it making any noise?

Focus on sorting out the machine first, it will make you feel better. As others have said, fitting one is actually pretty easy if you do need to order one. Amazon deliveries are still happening round here.

Thanks for the replies. I’ve got a new one being delivered thanks to my sister and her credit card. I have tried to fix it if it was just the filter or something ... this time though there’s no signs of life and I changed the fuse and still nothing.
I spoke to the company there ‘style’ of delivery has changed just like the regular posties has, they have to protect there staff too. Which was really nice to hear actually.
Trying to stay calm... can’t really do much more. The world feels so scary and new now. Guess we’re all going to to just take it as it comes..