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Contact with other parent

15 replies

Fluffballs · 16/03/2020 19:35

Is this essential contact? Or does it literally mean avoid anything but buying food/things you need to live?
Sorry if this has been covered already, I did look.

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DifficultPifcultLemonDifficult · 16/03/2020 19:37

I was wondering this too. I'm really unsure what to do, my ex works in a care home as well, so is it better for everyone if its only video chat contact for now?

Sparrowlegs248 · 16/03/2020 19:38

I'm wondering too. Me and 2 DC are self isolating. They see their dad 3 times a week. Hes self employed, so will struggle if needs to SI himself. Yet I think he will get the hump if I say he can't see them.

MrsJoshNavidi · 16/03/2020 19:40

Of course contact with a parent is essential!
Put the boot on the other foot

Fluffballs · 16/03/2020 19:41

It seems sensible to stop for now, but I think I'd go mad. I know that sounds horrible but it's my only time to clean/breathe for 5 minutes, when he's looking after her.

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ikeakia · 16/03/2020 19:42

I was wondering this too, thankfully he’s not going to see them for almost two weeks when things might be clearer. And I think he’ll be totally fine if it is longer than that.

ikeakia · 16/03/2020 19:43

But yeah, I’m dreading the lack of break. Sad

Fluffballs · 16/03/2020 19:43

@MrsJoshNavidi putting the boot on the other foot, I know I'd be weighing up the risks of potentially infecting my Dd, as my expartner is right now.
We're discussing this together, I'm not stealing her away.

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DifficultPifcultLemonDifficult · 16/03/2020 19:47

Of course contact with a parent is essential!
Put the boot on the other foot

If it came to 2 or 3 weeks of seeing my kids over video chat daily to not risk the lives of 50 elderly people I would obviously do it, I would miss them terribly, but some things are more important.

MysteryFrog · 16/03/2020 19:53

Following with interest as I didn’t get many replies on my thread, trying to discuss it with my ex but he doesn’t reply to message!

ChrissieKeller61 · 16/03/2020 19:55

Mine won’t be going this weekend for numerous reasons but mainly because he’s a twat who will shake hands with people

SugarSugarShimmy · 16/03/2020 20:08

People are still going to work every day, seeing both parents is pretty essential. This is for months and months

Sparrowlegs248 · 16/03/2020 20:18

To clarify, we at self isolating because both I had DC1 have symptoms. So no, I don't think contact with the other parent is essential for 14 days.

Fluffballs · 16/03/2020 20:21

I have a cough so I assume no contact for 14 days at least.

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SugarSugarShimmy · 16/03/2020 22:07

Sorry, you’re self isolating or just social distancing?

If the first, no contact
If the second, contact

Sparrowlegs248 · 16/03/2020 22:37

@SugarSugarShimmy not sure if you are asking me, or in gereral. I'm self isolating, as I said in my 2 posts above. I assumed that's what the post was about.

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