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Coronavirus and gatherings

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Realmumstuff · 15/03/2020 23:22

Hi, one of the children in my DDs class has symptoms very much like Coronavirus, her mum let us all know and they are in isolation.

We had a get together planned for ages this weekend at our house (with parents/kids...not huge just 4 families) and we were in two minds whether it should go ahead but we thought as long as we are sensible (no sharing food), names on drinks, no-one upstairs, regular hand washing and no-one who came had symptoms we would go ahead. I assumed no-one would bring any child or come along if they were coughing/ill etc.
I was wrong!

One of the mums brought her 3 children, 2 of which were coughing and sneezing. At one point they sneezed over a cake (I had to throw away!) and all the parent said was hand over mouth to her children and that was once. When I saw the children doing it I asked them to wash their hands (the parents just weren't bothered!) I ended up following the kids around clocking what they touched and everything has been cleaned. I felt too awful saying your kids are sick please could you take them home although I'm thinking now I should (I even mentioned my parents to her). It was noticed by others that these little ones were coughing. The parents of the poorly kids were very blasé about this virus. If we get it, we get it! The Mum even said we've had a cold but we're ok, then went on to say they are off to visit their elderly parents next weekend!

We spent all of today disinfecting our house! Both my parents are in their 70s with underlying health issues so looks like I can't visit for a while now just in case! Thankfully my sister is around to help.

I am so angry about it! My other half is a bit more relaxed about it but I thought she was a friend and would know better.

Am I over-reacting here?

OP posts:
MorganKitten · 16/03/2020 01:08

You said you’d invited families with kids so really shouldn’t be surprised when they turn up.
If you were upset with the coughing and sneezing you should have asked them to leave.

Designerenvy · 16/03/2020 01:10

Really you probably should have cancelled if it was going to stress you so much and you vulnerable people who you are in contact with.

Actionhasmagic · 16/03/2020 01:13

Awful people

Quarantined · 16/03/2020 02:11

You had a "no-one upstairs" rule... erm what kind of parties do you have? 😂

Joking aside, I can understand why you're annoyed. I would chalk this up to experience, learn from it and accept that people's approaches are going to differ and just because you're friends doesn't mean you think the same about everything - and then plan your future gatherings in such a way that you can manage these differences.

Marnie76 · 16/03/2020 06:53

Sneezing is not a symptom if that is your concern. But yuk at the sneezing over the cake, I wish people would teach their children manners!

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