DP is currently self-isolating for 14 days after a very short trip to an infected country. He is not aware of coming into contact with anyone who has coronavirus, and he has no symptoms. He’s renovating a property and is self-isolating there alone, very comfortably.
I had cancer last year and my health is fairly good but my immune system isn’t great. I work from home and don’t need to have close contact with hardly anyone.
DP is out a lot, eats out every day, plays indoor sport every evening and then props up the bar. If I’m going to catch it from anyone, it’ll probably be from him because he mixes with so many people and is quite blasé about coronavirus.
I speak to him every day on the phone. He can’t wait to pick up his life again, but I know if he’s infected, I’ll get it because I catch everything he gets. He’s lax about things like covering his mouth when he coughs, and handwashing (he's probably slightly better now).
I want to avoid getting it for as long as possible, so WIBU to ask him to continue living where he is? It will mean hardly seeing him, maybe just going for walks together. Or should I just suck it up and go back to us living together?