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School events not being cancelled - stupid decision?

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kerrybluesrockmyworld · 12/03/2020 23:30

My DC's school have a comedy night next Friday. It's a brilliant event, kids do silly dances, tell jokes, teachers get buckets of water over their heads and a couple do some family friendly stand up.
It's really popular, so is packed out with children and adults. People are literally crammed in for a whole evening.
My DD is in yr6, and she's doing a turn with her best friend. They've been practising for weeks, and can't wait.
I assumed it would get cancelled, as it seems like madness to go ahead as CV cases are rising massively everyday. There are a few cases in my local area, no one at school, and no one I know. I thought the gov announcement today would make the need to cancel "official". But no.
The head has been asked to consider cancelling by several parents, including me. He has refused. He is following PHE advice to the letter. So no need to cancel Confused.
I'm now working out how to tell my DD that I won't be going and that I don't want her to go either. To me, great as the evening is, it's not necessary and is actually really irresponsible. I've been researching (using reliable sources) and cannot find anything that would indicate that actively putting yourself in this position is a sensible course of action. But lots that would suggest it's a terrible one.
I'm sure if DD caught it she'd be fine, but she would then put others at risk. It's just not worth it. DD is going to be upset and furious if it goes ahead and she can't participate Sad

What are others doing about of this kind of thing? Are they being cancelled, or still going ahead? I'm so bloody stressed about it!

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bemoreeverything · 12/03/2020 23:33

Give them a chance. Surely they will have to make a post COBRA announcement decision on this. So the earliest you would hear would be tomorrow

42isthemeaning · 12/03/2020 23:33

My school has just cancelled all sports events, parents evenings, local trips and further afield as well as swimming sessions and social gatherings so I do think your school is being unreasonable

42isthemeaning · 12/03/2020 23:35

Bemore does make a good point here - they may change their tune by tomorrow

kerrybluesrockmyworld · 12/03/2020 23:53

The COBRA announcement today didn't give any advice regarding social distancing / cancelling events. Absolutely NADA. Believe me. I was hoping upon hope that they would do something that would force the head to cancel, but they didn't.
Going ahead with the event does not go against PHE advice. So it will not be cancelled Sad

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minipie · 12/03/2020 23:58

There’s a long time between now and next Friday. Measures may well have stepped up by then. I wouldn’t tell your DD she’s not going until a day or two before, by then it will be clearer why it’s needed (if it hasn’t been cancelled already).

bemoreeverything · 13/03/2020 00:00

The COBRA announcement today didn't give any advice regarding social distancing / cancelling events. Absolutely NADA.

No but it gave enough of other information for schools to make decisions.

kerrybluesrockmyworld · 13/03/2020 00:04

@bemoreeverything can you help me pick out the points that would support a cancellation from the new PHE advice. Please? I really want to be able to push the point with the head but it has to be the right ie official information.

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bemoreeverything · 13/03/2020 00:10

Not really no, I just think that with more information a better decision can be made. It's likely every school in the country has been holding off making any decisions until the results of this meeting came through. That was late afternoon, so maybe they will have something to say. Maybe not, but I do think it's likely they were waiting.

kerrybluesrockmyworld · 13/03/2020 00:17

@bemoreeverything I agree they would have been waiting for the announcement. But as I said, the actual announcement didn't change any advice that would give them reason to cancel.

I'll wait till next week to tell DD, hoping that maybe another announcement will change the heads views before that.

So many parents want it to go ahead. It's sold out. I just don't understand.

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Incontinencesucks · 13/03/2020 02:13

Maybe they feel as the dc are at school, what's the difference? I know that's why playgroups here are running, all the kids are in nursery together anyway. And all the parents interact with their kids.

Don't get me wrong, I'd not go or want it either but i can see why- with schools open- it may be viewed as the same risk by some.

ValleyoftheHorses · 13/03/2020 05:59

DS school has a school fair a week on Saturday. I think that should be cancelled. We won’t be going anyway!
They also have a residential in May and that should be cancelled as well imo.

middleager · 13/03/2020 06:04

I understand OP as I work in education and the boss is following PHE guidance to the letter regardless.

I would wait. We will be in a very different positon next Friday sadly.

HowDoesTheCow · 13/03/2020 07:18

I have kids at two schools. One has cancelled a parents in school event, one hasn't. The one that has cancelled the event today, hasn't cancelled the one next week...

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