Relatives are coming up later this month and while they'll be staying with me, they're really coming to see my 80 year old mum who lives nearby. They both work in hospitals, one of them in a hospital where someone has died of coronavirus although not the same ward/department. My mum is very worried about coronavirus but doesn't like to make a fuss. Now, she has always been kind of a hypochondriac so normally I don't take her that seriously, and I myself am not bothered about the virus (I figure if I get it, me and my kids will recover as we're all basically healthy). However I wonder if she does have grounds to put off the visit but - being very unsure of herself - if so I would have to intervene and tell them to postpone. My mum doesn't have any major health problems at present other than some gut issues and arthritis, but she's old and not strong.
Afaik, the relatives don't have any symptoms yet and I would assume they wouldn't travel if they did, however they're a bit ... insensitive. For instance my mum did try to raise the question and one just said, "Oh well, I don't worry about that, if you get it you get it," without realising that her getting it at 55 is different from my mum getting it at 80. If they don't come up now, they will probably not come again so my mum might never see them again, which would be sad for all as it's been years.
Should I intervene and tell them not to come?