Today, i decided, i made a big decision, but still feel unsure....dagnamit.

[tightwad]

After 5 mcs, tests galore nothing wrong with either of us, we decided to call it a day.

Im nealy 40, trying for a baby for about 3 years, so it wasnt happening.

But i opened the bathroom cabinet and there were some opk sticks that some one gave me.
I spoke to dh, and we decided to try for another 12 months.

What holds me back is that i am not sure if i could cope with another loss. I should have been having our baby in 2 weeks time, but lost that baby in Decemebr. That was the last loss.

Have any of you heard about people who have lost babies then gone on to have a baby?

Just need a wee bit of hope really.

I had 3 MCS and the a DD and another DD. Then 7 MCS and then A DS at the age of 39. You will feel unsure you are risking being hurt again, only you can make that decision. I was frightened the whole way through my pregnancy. But it can have a happy ending. I am glad I did.

thanks Lynli, that gives me a bit of hope. I am sure i am making the right decision.